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<font color="0000ff">BUDAK MENINGGAL DIPERCAYAI TERCEKIK MUNTAH SENDIRI
Oleh
Linilidia Abdul Hamid
SEORANG budak lelaki berusia empat tahun meninggal dunia Selasa lalu dipercayai setelah tercekik muntahnya sendiri.
Menurut ibunya, Cik Mardianah Abdul Wahab, kejadian itu berlaku sekitar 9.40 malam semasa arwahnya, Nurhan Amyr, sedang membuat kerja sekolah.
Melihat anak lelakinya itu mula berpeluh dan terasa mual Cik Mardianah, 37 tahun, menyuruhnya ke tandas.
'Kali pertama dia muntah, tidak ada masalah. Tapi kali kedua saya lihat dia seperti tercekik dan sukar bernafas,' ujar Cik Mardianah, seorang suri rumah, semasa ditemui Berita Harian di rumahnya di Pasir Ris Street 52, semalam.
Beliau membawa Nurhan yang telah longlai keluar daripada tandas dan cuba memberikan bantuan kecemasan dari mulut ke mulut (CPR).
Semasa melakukan CPR, Cik Mardianah melihat semakin banyak muntah yang keluar daripada mulut Nurhan. Beliau kemudian menghubungi ambulans dan Nurhan dibawa ke Hospital Besar Changi (CGH) di Simei.
Allahyarham Nurhan disahkan meninggal dunia pada 10.29 malam hari yang sama.
Sebab kematian yang dicatatkan di sijil kematian anak bongsu tiga beradik itu ialah 'jantung dan pernafasan terhenti sementara menanti siasatan lanjut'.
Allahyarham Nurhan yang dikebumikan kelmarin mempunyai sejarah menghidap penyakit ekzema (radang pada kulit) dan alah kepada coklat dan kacang.
Menurut ibunya: 'Hari itu, dia memang sihat. Cuma, ada berapa kali dia mengadu rasa nak muntah tapi tak keluar bila dia ke tandas. Selepas itu, dia nampak seperti biasa.'
Cik Mardianah menyifatkan Allahyarham Nurhan sebagai seorang kanak-kanak yang peramah, suka makan dan meminati rancangan memasak.
Menurut Cik Mardianah, beliau dan suaminya, Encik Jalaludin Haji Muhammad, 35 tahun, memandikan sendiri jenazah anak mereka.
Menurut Cik Mardianah lagi, pemergian Allahyarham Nurhan amat dirasakan oleh kakaknya, Nurya Durrah Alwani Jalaludin, tujuh tahun, yang sebelum ini tidur sebilik dengan Allahyarham Nurhan.
Katanya: 'Nurya memang rapat dengan Nurhan. Kadang-kadang, setelah saya suruh mereka masuk tidur, saya masih dengar mereka bergurau. Tadi (semalam), Nurya ada beritahu saya dia mimpikan Nurhan.'
Cik Mardianah yang kelihatan tenang sepanjang diwawancara tidak dapat menahan linangan air mata apabila mengenangkan kata-kata yang pernah diucapkan Allahyarham Nurhan kepadanya.
Katanya: 'Bila saya marah dia, dia kata kepada saya, Mama, why you scold me? You know I love you right?' (Mama, kenapa marah saya? Mama tahu saya sayang mama kan?)
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Oleh
Linilidia Abdul Hamid
SEORANG budak lelaki berusia empat tahun meninggal dunia Selasa lalu dipercayai setelah tercekik muntahnya sendiri.
Menurut ibunya, Cik Mardianah Abdul Wahab, kejadian itu berlaku sekitar 9.40 malam semasa arwahnya, Nurhan Amyr, sedang membuat kerja sekolah.
Melihat anak lelakinya itu mula berpeluh dan terasa mual Cik Mardianah, 37 tahun, menyuruhnya ke tandas.
'Kali pertama dia muntah, tidak ada masalah. Tapi kali kedua saya lihat dia seperti tercekik dan sukar bernafas,' ujar Cik Mardianah, seorang suri rumah, semasa ditemui Berita Harian di rumahnya di Pasir Ris Street 52, semalam.
Beliau membawa Nurhan yang telah longlai keluar daripada tandas dan cuba memberikan bantuan kecemasan dari mulut ke mulut (CPR).
Semasa melakukan CPR, Cik Mardianah melihat semakin banyak muntah yang keluar daripada mulut Nurhan. Beliau kemudian menghubungi ambulans dan Nurhan dibawa ke Hospital Besar Changi (CGH) di Simei.
Allahyarham Nurhan disahkan meninggal dunia pada 10.29 malam hari yang sama.
Sebab kematian yang dicatatkan di sijil kematian anak bongsu tiga beradik itu ialah 'jantung dan pernafasan terhenti sementara menanti siasatan lanjut'.
Allahyarham Nurhan yang dikebumikan kelmarin mempunyai sejarah menghidap penyakit ekzema (radang pada kulit) dan alah kepada coklat dan kacang.
Menurut ibunya: 'Hari itu, dia memang sihat. Cuma, ada berapa kali dia mengadu rasa nak muntah tapi tak keluar bila dia ke tandas. Selepas itu, dia nampak seperti biasa.'
Cik Mardianah menyifatkan Allahyarham Nurhan sebagai seorang kanak-kanak yang peramah, suka makan dan meminati rancangan memasak.
Menurut Cik Mardianah, beliau dan suaminya, Encik Jalaludin Haji Muhammad, 35 tahun, memandikan sendiri jenazah anak mereka.
Menurut Cik Mardianah lagi, pemergian Allahyarham Nurhan amat dirasakan oleh kakaknya, Nurya Durrah Alwani Jalaludin, tujuh tahun, yang sebelum ini tidur sebilik dengan Allahyarham Nurhan.
Katanya: 'Nurya memang rapat dengan Nurhan. Kadang-kadang, setelah saya suruh mereka masuk tidur, saya masih dengar mereka bergurau. Tadi (semalam), Nurya ada beritahu saya dia mimpikan Nurhan.'
Cik Mardianah yang kelihatan tenang sepanjang diwawancara tidak dapat menahan linangan air mata apabila mengenangkan kata-kata yang pernah diucapkan Allahyarham Nurhan kepadanya.
Katanya: 'Bila saya marah dia, dia kata kepada saya, Mama, why you scold me? You know I love you right?' (Mama, kenapa marah saya? Mama tahu saya sayang mama kan?)
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momma_naqi
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subhannallah ......kesiannya....da ajal...
momma_naqi
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wati,
How did it happen??
How did it happen??
momma_naqi
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betul2...I pun kanchong queen...
CPR pun tak tahu...kekadang makan pun leh tersedak...da mulalah aku nangis....ishhh obit betul
CPR pun tak tahu...kekadang makan pun leh tersedak...da mulalah aku nangis....ishhh obit betul
smalldreams
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Lynn
that's so sad. 4 yr old kan tengah verrry verrrry cute. More kesian his parents... budak tu dah kat syurga sekarang.
that's so sad. 4 yr old kan tengah verrry verrrry cute. More kesian his parents... budak tu dah kat syurga sekarang.
momma_naqi
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nora...
hahahah aku tends to get very panicky....hmmm
hahahah aku tends to get very panicky....hmmm
smalldreams
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naqi,lynn
biasa lah panic..tapi kat luar kene rilek aje, kat dalam, Allah saja yang tau...
biasa lah panic..tapi kat luar kene rilek aje, kat dalam, Allah saja yang tau...
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
memang betul.. kat luar, i nampak mcm ok je.. tapi kat dlm, Allah saja yg tahu..
when naufal had to go thru physiotherapy.. my hb siang2 dah kluar bilik, tak sanggup nak tgk.. so i had to be there, memang nak nangis and ask e doc to stop.. but i had to be strong and keep telling myself.. "it for his own good"</font>
memang betul.. kat luar, i nampak mcm ok je.. tapi kat dlm, Allah saja yg tahu..
when naufal had to go thru physiotherapy.. my hb siang2 dah kluar bilik, tak sanggup nak tgk.. so i had to be there, memang nak nangis and ask e doc to stop.. but i had to be strong and keep telling myself.. "it for his own good"</font>
<font color="ff0000">Lynn
Latest news is it??
Alamak my son Raiyan ada enzema, dah abt 1 week he keep garuk2 coz cuaca panas and memang he keep batuk which ever dia makan
bab tu i control on his choc n watever titbits dia makan.
In dat case i must be very berhati2...
Thanks Lynn for sharing</font>
Latest news is it??
Alamak my son Raiyan ada enzema, dah abt 1 week he keep garuk2 coz cuaca panas and memang he keep batuk which ever dia makan
bab tu i control on his choc n watever titbits dia makan.
In dat case i must be very berhati2...
Thanks Lynn for sharing</font>
wati
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Naqi, for my case. Maya was only 2 mth old. Kau bayangkanlah anak aku kecik gitu kan. I was feeding her, tapi dia minum sikit, then dia tak nak. So she sleep and i put on her cot. Then baru 5 minit, i masuk tgk dia, she crying lah.. then i ingat dia nak sambung minum, so i sumbat lah botol. Belum sempat aku sumbat dah dia muntah.. This is 'force vomit'.. meaning the vomit came out with a great force. Thru the nostril and mouth. Imagine anak aku terus tak bleh breath ! She was gasping for air tau... she was like wriggling in my arm.. sebab tak bleh bernafas.. i was so panic.. aku tepuk and tepuk !! then rush out of the house, grab a towel that i hang outside and wrap my baby.. then kejar taxi by the road and rush to A & E. All along anak aku dah biru tau... she was truning cold.. Aku dah tergosok-gosok her little body.. My husband was all along with us, cuma dia otak mati.. like brain dead.. dun know how to react incase of emergency.. nasib bini dia terror. So i was crying and keep tepuk-tepuk anak aku.. apek taxi terus speeding maut kat expressway.
<font color="0000ff">Lina
is like a process to kluarkan lendir dari hidung and mulut..
e doc will tepuk2 kat belakang badan den will insert tube thru his nose and mulut.. lepas tu diorg will pump2 sampai kluar lendir tu.. and 4 hari straight naufal had to go thru tis.. </font>
is like a process to kluarkan lendir dari hidung and mulut..
e doc will tepuk2 kat belakang badan den will insert tube thru his nose and mulut.. lepas tu diorg will pump2 sampai kluar lendir tu.. and 4 hari straight naufal had to go thru tis.. </font>
momma_naqi
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ingat lagi at 3mths Anaqi demam panas....bawak gi doc tak baik2...ashik nangis je...Me pun ikut nangis....
Kalau dia tersedak...samalah macam Nora....gosok2 tgh blakang...then pekik"kluarkan kluarkan"
Anaqi sunat aku nangis
Kalau dia tersedak...samalah macam Nora....gosok2 tgh blakang...then pekik"kluarkan kluarkan"
Anaqi sunat aku nangis
smalldreams
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Shahlynn
Good that you're trained in CPR. These kind of things memang ... maybe u noe, but when the time comes, kena compose yrself so u can apply it properly.
Kesian eh budak kecik ada eczema. I really pity those children. I hope our kids are protected from such skin conditions. My bro has it, and I feel so kesian for him - and he's already 21!!
Nanti u gi Arnolds? Never met you before
Wati
Alamak, seramnye yr experience. Syukur Maya tak ada apa2.
The trials and tribulations of parenthood...
Good that you're trained in CPR. These kind of things memang ... maybe u noe, but when the time comes, kena compose yrself so u can apply it properly.
Kesian eh budak kecik ada eczema. I really pity those children. I hope our kids are protected from such skin conditions. My bro has it, and I feel so kesian for him - and he's already 21!!
Nanti u gi Arnolds? Never met you before
Wati
Alamak, seramnye yr experience. Syukur Maya tak ada apa2.
The trials and tribulations of parenthood...
lynn...
nie just below the ribs...can susah eh gitu nak tulis kalau demonstrate senang hihihi
wati yesh betul....
yg pasal rambutan...budak tu pon tercekik then died....
kalau baby...esp their nose blocked due to mucus...as parents nak kena berani 'sedut' pakai mulut...
nie just below the ribs...can susah eh gitu nak tulis kalau demonstrate senang hihihi
wati yesh betul....
yg pasal rambutan...budak tu pon tercekik then died....
kalau baby...esp their nose blocked due to mucus...as parents nak kena berani 'sedut' pakai mulut...
smalldreams
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Lynn
Why did naufal have to go for physio? I thought the last time he was hospitalised in ESH it was due to his prolonged cough.
Why did naufal have to go for physio? I thought the last time he was hospitalised in ESH it was due to his prolonged cough.
smalldreams
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Naqi
Anaqi sunat time dia brapa bulan eh? Tapi relieved kan, skarang dah senang!
I punya mata pun berair when I saw 1-2 mth old Adam kena sunat. I saw how the doc cut his tiny foreskin & blood started spotting. And there he was crying his lungs out - tapi doc kata more for being held down, rather than the pain of sunat. Wallahualam.
Anaqi sunat time dia brapa bulan eh? Tapi relieved kan, skarang dah senang!
I punya mata pun berair when I saw 1-2 mth old Adam kena sunat. I saw how the doc cut his tiny foreskin & blood started spotting. And there he was crying his lungs out - tapi doc kata more for being held down, rather than the pain of sunat. Wallahualam.
wati
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Nora Aw, i was fighting for Maya's life tau. Nie i tak bohong, i had flashback on my pregnancy and birth. Then dlm hati i was pleading with ALLAH swt.. i was telling him please give me a chance to take care of Maya. It's not fair if you take her away from me now ! I had 2 miscarriages and you give me Maya.. You do not have the right to take her away now... All this was running thru my mind.
So tu sebab, i'm very careful in wat Maya eat or do. i do not want to lose her...
Tapi apakan daya, orang selalu salah anggap. My in-laws ckp i nie paranoid, mengada-ngada.. but tuhan saja yg tahu..
So tu sebab, i'm very careful in wat Maya eat or do. i do not want to lose her...
Tapi apakan daya, orang selalu salah anggap. My in-laws ckp i nie paranoid, mengada-ngada.. but tuhan saja yg tahu..
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
yg dia masuk ESH tu cos of prolonged cough, fever and byk lendir and suspected asthma..
tapi now alhamdullilah.. nasib baik tak kena asthma, suspected je..! but still for now i kena control dia punya makan.. no cold food or drink for him now..!!</font>
yg dia masuk ESH tu cos of prolonged cough, fever and byk lendir and suspected asthma..
tapi now alhamdullilah.. nasib baik tak kena asthma, suspected je..! but still for now i kena control dia punya makan.. no cold food or drink for him now..!!</font>
momma_naqi
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smalldream ard 1-2 mths....yup yup...bila tengok dia nangis...automatically i pun nangis...*ishh lembiknya aku ni*
smalldreams
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Wati *quote*
I had 2 miscarriages and you give me Maya.. You do not have the right to take her away now... All this was running thru my mind
It's tough for us, mothers, tapi Allah has the right to do whatever He wants. And Alhamdulillah, He decided to grant your doa
I had 2 miscarriages and you give me Maya.. You do not have the right to take her away now... All this was running thru my mind
It's tough for us, mothers, tapi Allah has the right to do whatever He wants. And Alhamdulillah, He decided to grant your doa
