little_mouse
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I personally don't hv a very good experience with Dr. Adrian, he gave me the impression that he pro c-sect for his own convenient.
For my first bb,he kept asking me to induce due to low AF, but i keep delaying coz i don't want to be induce & want to bb stay longer inside my womb.
But finally i gave in to him in week 38 because i don't want something to happen to my bb also. So during induced, he broke my waterbag without telling me, i was shocked & dunno how to react coz i didn't know what is happening. Then bb cannot take the stress then he suggested to go for c-sect.
His stitch was good, everything was fine other than i hv slight disappointed as he always asked me to go induce & break the waterbag without telling me....
For my 2nd pregnancy, i go back to him as his clinic is near to my house. I dislike him coz he never encourage VBAC or natural birth, in fact, he keeps telling me very high risk, you bb might not able to survive etc if we opt for natural birth ....
I was sad, i wanted to try natural, i wanted bb to stay inside the womb until he is ready to come out, Dr. Adrian straight away told me that he didn't do natural birth after c-section.
For me, he just want an easy way out & for his own convenient. Finally, i hv to give in, unless i want to change gynae. I choose a date which is 2 weeks later, which by calculation is only 37 weeks plus, but based on his calculation, it is already 38 weeks & it shd be safe.
I actually hv some mixed feeling, perhaps he is my gynae, he knows the best for me, maybe his way of persuading is diff....
but on the other hand, i wish he can be more pro-natural birth as this is the best for me & bb, i feel very bad coz i was not even given a chance to try or to choose what i want for my birth plan...
For my first bb,he kept asking me to induce due to low AF, but i keep delaying coz i don't want to be induce & want to bb stay longer inside my womb.
But finally i gave in to him in week 38 because i don't want something to happen to my bb also. So during induced, he broke my waterbag without telling me, i was shocked & dunno how to react coz i didn't know what is happening. Then bb cannot take the stress then he suggested to go for c-sect.
His stitch was good, everything was fine other than i hv slight disappointed as he always asked me to go induce & break the waterbag without telling me....
For my 2nd pregnancy, i go back to him as his clinic is near to my house. I dislike him coz he never encourage VBAC or natural birth, in fact, he keeps telling me very high risk, you bb might not able to survive etc if we opt for natural birth ....
I was sad, i wanted to try natural, i wanted bb to stay inside the womb until he is ready to come out, Dr. Adrian straight away told me that he didn't do natural birth after c-section.
For me, he just want an easy way out & for his own convenient. Finally, i hv to give in, unless i want to change gynae. I choose a date which is 2 weeks later, which by calculation is only 37 weeks plus, but based on his calculation, it is already 38 weeks & it shd be safe.
I actually hv some mixed feeling, perhaps he is my gynae, he knows the best for me, maybe his way of persuading is diff....
but on the other hand, i wish he can be more pro-natural birth as this is the best for me & bb, i feel very bad coz i was not even given a chance to try or to choose what i want for my birth plan...