Hi phua,
6 yr old know already lah...
When our girl was 3 yr old, she told me she wants another little brother,
now she's 5, I asked her if the 2 brothers are enough for her,
does she wants another sister or brother,
she tells me.. no no no.. enough already!...
Anyway, think of it this way,
will your family as a whole be happier if there's a #2 now?
Will it be more stressful, less freedom, less sleep, afraid of losing job & unable to retire early?
Having an additional member is a happy occasion,
a joyful committement,
but if even discussion on it cause strains on relationship with your hubby,
it's not going the correct direction.
Do take sometime to think of,
what's want, what's need, what's pratical.
When you have all the answers, you'll be a happier person.
Can ponder, can depress, can feel unhappy, can be jealous,
but not for too long,
else visiting a shrink may be a better choice.
Age wait for no men, since we can't turn it back,
why not work on better relationships,
spend all the time with your son.
& hubby too, can't make love for baby, but still can enjoy the process right?
For better bonds, for better health.
Just my 2 cents.