how to get in touch with you?yes if any ladies here need a chat..can chat me too. :>
i need advise too...pls helpMine is 3k n as a plaintiff. I heard my lawyer said defendant wil hv to pay abt 1.8k. Nt too sure hw it goes yet since mine stil in the midst of it
same here....pls helpHi
i would like to join the group too. I'm going to file for divorce but don't know how and where to start. Need lots of advices as well.
i would really love to join a support group here...but i dont know how...can anyone show me the way plshi ladies,
would like to join this support group to learn more about how others are coping and how to manage life after divorce.
I've been married for 12yrs with 2kids..HB strayed twice and we cant get along...recently, we quarrel over small issues and he asked for a divorce in a spite of anger. Even postd on FB to let all his and some of my friends know..of cos he said its all my fault, my character and refused to change. I was weary and tired and told him tt ok, lets go separate ways..But he refused becos I guess he only threaten me then.
He said I am selfish n unfair to him..he thought he had found someone he can live with for a lifetime but only knowing now tt it is not just becos I refused to change.. he thinks I am being very unfair to him and the kids becos of my character. He also tried to wash my brain by saying " u think life will be good after divorce? All my friends who went thru it had gone thru tough life. So dont think that life will be better"... He asked me to think if I want this marriage and change to save this marriage.
Things has been cold now and he purposely try to avoid me n finds me irritating too. When I scold my kids becos they never behave, he always refer me to "that woman" or "her" instead of using "mummy"..
I am very sick and tired of this marriage..am really seriously thinking of leaving him and starting my own life with the kids. but also concerned tt kids will really be affected by this. I spoke to close friends and relatives and all had persuaded me not to divorce becos of the kids.. but on the other side, I am not happy at all in my daily life...I just have a simple wish, to live happily everyday...
so chance upon this thread and hope to understand and know more ppl who had gone thru before making final decision. If there is a FB group, can PM me to join or anyway to link up with ppl here?? Advise please and sorry for long winded story..
hi nicole, please add me up...thanksHi cuttie
Welcome to our support group. We r here for each other. Please pm me n I will add u via email. There is nothing much yet because I m v busy now with my divorce matters.
But I aim to get everyone together to meet n chat , including our children
Do u intend to move out? How long have u been divorced? I like your CCTV analogy! Hahaha...
Cheer up! We are here for each other...
hi how can i contact you? thanksI'm doing up my third affidavit for divorce for ancillary matters, due for hearing in Sept. with two young kids 1 and 3. I hope to be of help to anyone here who needs an opinion or simply a listening ear =) mine is based on unreasonable behavior.. As far as I'm concerned, no third parties