2WW - for those TTC-ing


dolly_gal said:
I aso realised my temper more fiery during first tri. But learning to mild down cos every time after temper I will feel crampy So need to cool down. I just walk away. The only thing I can't cool down is when my boss gives me nonsense n unreasonable demand..
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And to think I was wondering why people keep saying that they have cramps but I dun have any... =X Spoke too soon. It was going on and off when I was fuming yest until I wanted to sleep.

Btw do u feel cold sometimes? I felt that the bed was exceptionally cold when I crawled in last night, nv felt that before =X
 
Emily Tan said:
not only doing ultrasound. u may also required to do a blood test to check if u O or not. I dono how accurate it can be.. cos i , myself, was thinking what if e period of time when i do ultrasound i wasn't O-ing? or haven't O?
What if e period of time when i did my blood test, i wasn't O-ing or i haven't O? Then gynae said i didn't O??? there's really no valid ans wor.

And to add on...
every one has different cycle days and different O days.. How does a gynae determine that oh... u can come back at CD23 24 or 25 to do the 2nd blood test to see if u O? That's what my gynae did... 1st blood test was CD2 or 3. 2nd blood test on CD23 24 or 25.

So ... what if i O at CD30??? does it mean that e previous check says i didn't O? Or i cannot O at all? etc???

You can only check if u O or not +- your O period... and what if those that didn't know when she will be o-ing for this cycle? how?
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dunno eh her gynae said inside ovaries many eggs no go down also her previous gynae from kkh den she now seeing gyane from gleaneagle blood test n some other test showing won be able to conceive naturally n her hub low sperm count so they will be doing ivf in sgh
 
I only feel warm during my 2ww then cold all the way since bfp. Go shopping mall aso feel cold dun know y. Ya will feel cramps on n off, guess its the uterus expansion as times goes by.
Till date i cant eat much, every meal half portion then i feel full like something stuck at the throat, its worse after mid noon so i tried to have full brunch ...
 
gammahedging said:
Shld have stood my ground and not give up the seat. bloody bitch thinks she is entitled to it. I think I shad also proclaim my status and not budge in figure
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I knew how u feel I saw almost same scenario this morning den mrt staff asked anyone to give up the seat the preggie lady so ya ya come in n sit down lor her face I c liao also think she need to be so ya ya?
 
dolly_gal said:
I only feel warm during my 2ww then cold all the way since bfp. Go shopping mall aso feel cold dun know y. Ya will feel cramps on n off, guess its the uterus expansion as times goes by.
Till date i cant eat much, every meal half portion then i feel full like something stuck at the throat, its worse after mid noon so i tried to have full brunch ...
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Ya it also seems that I cannot eat the same amt at my usual speed.. Else I'd be in so much agony. Haizz..
 
Give a hope said:
I knew how u feel I saw almost same scenario this morning den mrt staff asked anyone to give up the seat the preggie lady so ya ya come in n sit down lor her face I c liao also think she need to be so ya ya?
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Ya lo... They seem to think it's a right. But on the contrary I think it is a privilege. It is not illegal for me to be seated on the priority seat even if I am not preggie / old / disabled /with a small chold right.....To put it across in a warped way, I made the effort to move faster to the seat. I know of some people who wld take the train from Raffles Place to Marina so that they'd have a seat on the N-S Line. If I made the effort to get the seat I am on, why shld I give it up to u if I am not feeling particularly generous / energetic that day?
We shld be appreciative of the goodwill extended to us, and pass it forward! Just that there are so many "high and almighty" people out there who are so "self-righteous".
 
Morning ladies....
Just wana check whether anyone experienced brown discharged straight after BD?
I'm currently on CD26, expecting my AF to arrive in another 2-3days time.
BD last night :rolleyes:, and then I saw light brown discharge when I wiped after peeing..
Then again when I wiped after my toilet business this morning, the discharge was pinkish.
Then nothing till now.
Slight crampy but havent had brown discharge prior to AF arrival ever since I started on Progyluton.
What is happening?!?!?!?
 
Noon ladies.. !!
Been bz like a bumble bee from ytd till this morning!! Thanks for all the advices.. I will see a gynae if this cycle still light but of cos i hope it will mia for another 9 months..
I need to check with regards about gynae..Im seeing Dr Sadhana @ kkh bcos of my previous IVF so now my case like that should i go back and see her but im afraid her schedule is super packed might not be able to see her straight away that kind.. or should i jus jump to any gynae??

Whineypooh, u try to monitor again since is near your af..maybe is spotting before AF or implantation bleeding...
 
gammahedging said:
Ya lo... They seem to think it's a right. But on the contrary I think it is a privilege. It is not illegal for me to be seated on the priority seat even if I am not preggie / old / disabled /with a small chold right.....To put it across in a warped way, I made the effort to move faster to the seat. I know of some people who wld take the train from Raffles Place to Marina so that they'd have a seat on the N-S Line. If I made the effort to get the seat I am on, why shld I give it up to u if I am not feeling particularly generous / energetic that day?
We shld be appreciative of the goodwill extended to us, and pass it forward! Just that there are so many "high and almighty" people out there who are so "self-righteous".
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ya lor! i very very much agreed with all the ladies here regarding e priority seat! Althou it's for the needy, it's really up to us whether or not to give up. There are so many men who sit on other seats playing with e phone.. why can't they give up e seat instead of us, ladies?? priority seat so what? if not priority seat is taken by the needy, does it mean that if i am preg with a big tummy or disabled or i am old, i cannot take e other seat??? Men should at least be more gentlemen to give up e seat! Not only e person sitting on e priority seats! When i saw preg or old ppl , althou i am not on e priority seat, i will also stand up and give it to them. And i feel so disgraceful to the men out there sleeping and playing with e phone. My hubby will also give up his seat to e needy even if he is not sitting on e priority seat.

But... of cos if we are not well, giddy, crampy, having menses, or feeling not so good tat day, i don see why we cannot take e priority seat. Or those who have had an operation and no money to take taxi etc... cannot sit on e priority seats??? There are a couple of times i encountered myself being asked to give up my priority seat to other ppl! So angry! i was feeling dizzy and having menses tat day. why i cannot sit? must wait til i faint then can sit is it? How abt those disabled but not so visible ones???... i have a friend who is preg... 2 trimester lei. can see tummy, still, there is a guy who urged her to give up her seat to a 50+ yrs old woman. I have a disable friend sitting on e priority seat also being asked to give up! ! !
 
gammahedging said:
Ya lo... They seem to think it's a right. But on the contrary I think it is a privilege. It is not illegal for me to be seated on the priority seat even if I am not preggie / old / disabled /with a small chold right.....To put it across in a warped way, I made the effort to move faster to the seat. I know of some people who wld take the train from Raffles Place to Marina so that they'd have a seat on the N-S Line. If I made the effort to get the seat I am on, why shld I give it up to u if I am not feeling particularly generous / energetic that day?
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Emily Tan said:
ya lor! i very very much agreed with all the ladies here regarding e priority seat! Althou it's for the needy, it's really up to us whether or not to give up. There are so many men who sit on other seats playing with e phone.. why can't they give up e seat instead of us, ladies?? priority seat so what? if not priority seat is taken by the needy, does it mean that if i am preg with a big tummy or disabled or i am old, i cannot take e other seat??? Men should at least be more gentlemen to give up e seat! Not only e person sitting on e priority seats! When i saw preg or old ppl , althou i am not on e priority seat, i will also stand up and give it to them. And i feel so disgraceful to the men out there sleeping and playing with e phone. My hubby will also give up his seat to e needy even if he is not sitting on e priority seat.

But... of cos if we are not well, giddy, crampy, having menses, or feeling not so good tat day, i don see why we cannot take e priority seat. Or those who have had an operation and no money to take taxi etc... cannot sit on e priority seats??? There are a couple of times i encountered myself being asked to give up my priority seat to other ppl! So angry! i was feeling dizzy and having menses tat day. why i cannot sit? must wait til i faint then can sit is it? How abt those disabled but not so visible ones???... i have a friend who is preg... 2 trimester lei. can see tummy, still, there is a guy who urged her to give up her seat to a 50+ yrs old woman. I have a disable friend sitting on e priority seat also being asked to give up! ! !
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Haha ur friend is better than I...got tummy liao right.. Just point to her tummy and go back to sleep lor.

Sheesh... am eating my yong tau foo and then there was this short wave of nausea. =X
 
gammahedging said:
Haha ur friend is better than I...got tummy liao right.. Just point to her tummy and go back to sleep lor.

Sheesh... am eating my yong tau foo and then there was this short wave of nausea. =X
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tats the beginning stage. tink ur ms finding u liao. but sounds still ok to me lar.
i seen ppl ms super serious til need to go hospital....
juz take gd care. eat watever that u feel like eating to make u feel better. avoid liang food. tats all....
 
gd day every one.. so long nv report in .. but im reading on & off..

had bd twice on CD 10 and CD 12.. not really ttc but i also donno why hb bd w/o caution :(

Anyway i guess wont strike..

These days im so unhappy at work. Contemplating to change job but my notice period is 2 mths :(

To stay here have a baby but unhappy or move to the next job and push back the bb plan?

If change a new job is not very nice to go on ML within 1 yr of employment ..

what u girls think?
 
I'd say there is no harm in sending out ur resume..and leave to nature the bb making process cos there is only so much u can do...but ur career lies in ur hands
 
bel_vodka said:
gd day every one.. so long nv report in .. but im reading on & off..

had bd twice on CD 10 and CD 12.. not really ttc but i also donno why hb bd w/o caution :(

Anyway i guess wont strike..

These days im so unhappy at work. Contemplating to change job but my notice period is 2 mths :(

To stay here have a baby but unhappy or move to the next job and push back the bb plan?

If change a new job is not very nice to go on ML within 1 yr of employment ..

what u girls think?
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Hi Bel,

I faced this exact situation as you about half a year back.
Was extremely unhappy at work but yet dunno whether to leave cos TTC-ing.
I made the decision to stay at my job..
Dunno whether it's the right decision but I didn't regret it..
I will keep this job until I deliver.. to enjoy all the benefits first...:D:D
 
wondersss said:
Noon ladies.. !!
Been bz like a bumble bee from ytd till this morning!! Thanks for all the advices.. I will see a gynae if this cycle still light but of cos i hope it will mia for another 9 months..
I need to check with regards about gynae..Im seeing Dr Sadhana @ kkh bcos of my previous IVF so now my case like that should i go back and see her but im afraid her schedule is super packed might not be able to see her straight away that kind.. or should i jus jump to any gynae??

Whineypooh, u try to monitor again since is near your af..maybe is spotting before AF or implantation bleeding...
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I hope it is really implantation bleeding.
But on off AF-like cramps.
Plus no other symptoms.
Thinking that it would be cos I BD and was too "dry" to begin with, hence the bleeding..
 
gammahedging said:
Ya lo... They seem to think it's a right. But on the contrary I think it is a privilege. It is not illegal for me to be seated on the priority seat even if I am not preggie / old / disabled /with a small chold right.....To put it across in a warped way, I made the effort to move faster to the seat. I know of some people who wld take the train from Raffles Place to Marina so that they'd have a seat on the N-S Line. If I made the effort to get the seat I am on, why shld I give it up to u if I am not feeling particularly generous / energetic that day?
We shld be appreciative of the goodwill extended to us, and pass it forward! Just that there are so many "high and almighty" people out there who are so "self-righteous".
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Actually the sign lack of one pic which is for those who are feeling unwell. ..else look at us like we do something wrong.
 
stoneystoney said:
tats the beginning stage. tink ur ms finding u liao. but sounds still ok to me lar.
i seen ppl ms super serious til need to go hospital....
juz take gd care. eat watever that u feel like eating to make u feel better. avoid liang food. tats all....
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I think u r right tt Ms MS is looking for me already. Cld not finish my lunch earlier , so I had milo. After my cup of milo there was another wave of nausea. Nothing but lots of saliva came out tho. I hope she doesn't make herself too welcome so quickly cos hb and I havent let PIL know yet. Wanna wait till the u/s on the 23rd. If I puke at the dining table then GG liao....
 
gammahedging said:
I think u r right tt Ms MS is looking for me already. Cld not finish my lunch earlier , so I had milo. After my cup of milo there was another wave of nausea. Nothing but lots of saliva came out tho. I hope she doesn't make herself too welcome so quickly cos hb and I havent let PIL know yet. Wanna wait till the u/s on the 23rd. If I puke at the dining table then GG liao....
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hahaha... some ppl will very early have ms.
juz take it easy. i doubt u will puke at dinning table.
juz cannot finish ur food.
keke...
 
gammahedging said:
now rly sometimes i feel so sian to eat... sighhhhh. my portions have shrunk =X
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It's normal.. I puke from beginning all the way till wk7 then has a break then wk12 come back visit me again. Hungry wants to eat but always feel something at the throat So now kana train small appetite liao. anything aso eat half for the sake of eating …
 
dolly_gal said:
It's normal.. I puke from beginning all the way till wk7 then has a break then wk12 come back visit me again. Hungry wants to eat but always feel something at the throat So now kana train small appetite liao. anything aso eat half for the sake of eating …
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did ur gynae give u medicine for nausea? I have promethazine but it causes drowsiness as it is an antihistamine,the sort of drugs u takw when u have runny nose. am probably gg to ask my gynae for maxalon when I see him in 2 weeks'. very excited ... hahaha
 
Bel_volka, me too staying on because of ttc..
My af supposed to come yesterday but haven't come.. we din bd during my fertile period, so I don't think I am pregnant. Guai guai waiting for af to come..
 
gammahedging said:
did ur gynae give u medicine for nausea? I have promethazine but it causes drowsiness as it is an antihistamine,the sort of drugs u takw when u have runny nose. am probably gg to ask my gynae for maxalon when I see him in 2 weeks'. very excited ... hahaha
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Nope cos I dun view it tat serious at that time n when I lost one Beanie the day after good Friday aso ard the time my ms stop as well then hospitalized 5d4n. For flu or itchness u can buy this medication at pharmacy call piriton at 3.90 for small pack. It's safe for preggy mummy as my ivf ctr aso have me this previously.
 
dolly_gal said:
Nope cos I dun view it tat serious at that time n when I lost one Beanie the day after good Friday aso ard the time my ms stop as well then hospitalized 5d4n. For flu or itchness u can buy this medication at pharmacy call piriton at 3.90 for small pack. It's safe for preggy mummy as my ivf ctr aso have me this previously.
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Yup yup I know of piriton.... it's dynamite. Will KO after taking
 
gammahedging said:
now rly sometimes i feel so sian to eat... sighhhhh. my portions have shrunk =X
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common. beginnin i find eating very sianz. dun knw wat to eat.
but now even sianz also need to eat. becoz super easy hungry. so my now food intake is much more bigger. lol
so scare my weight goes up
 
Oh, thks stoneystoney. How r u now? what's the purpose of bbting during AF ah? I always tot no need to since it defeat the purpose (catching O)...
 
I did bbt during my period.
Then my thermometer decided to give up on me during the time I was supposed to O.
Think no hope for this month again..
Saw tinge of light light light brown discharge when I wiped just now.
Cramps getting more intense..
 
stoneystoney said:
common. beginnin i find eating very sianz. dun knw wat to eat.
but now even sianz also need to eat. becoz super easy hungry. so my now food intake is much more bigger. lol
so scare my weight goes up
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Can u imagine normally I can have 2 servings of fried rice for dinner but yesterday I managed to eat barely 8 mouthfuls of rice then I rly BTH liao. But I was super happy to share an almond-flavored Magnum Mini with my hubby...Satisfying. And before I slept I had a tiny chocolate bar. Unhealthy but it seems these small portions of junk food go down better for me... =X
 
bubbleblue1 said:
Oh, thks stoneystoney. How r u now? what's the purpose of bbting during AF ah? I always tot no need to since it defeat the purpose (catching O)...
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me ar. fine. hahaha. still ok lar. juz bigger appetite. hahaha..
gammahedging is rite. u need to take the whole cycle temp to have more accurate information. to detect ur O and baseline temp.
fr there then can c when u actually O.

gammahedging said:
Can u imagine normally I can have 2 servings of fried rice for dinner but yesterday I managed to eat barely 8 mouthfuls of rice then I rly BTH liao. But I was super happy to share an almond-flavored Magnum Mini with my hubby...Satisfying. And before I slept I had a tiny chocolate bar. Unhealthy but it seems these small portions of junk food go down better for me... =X
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haha. common. alot ppl beginning stage will like to eat junk food. got quite a few ladies also like tat.
u still ok lar. share ice cream wif ur hb. give me i sure finish one by myself. i also keep taking cold food due to the weather super hot now. lol... so pamper urself. watever u can eat juz eat.
 
stoneystoney said:
me ar. fine. hahaha. still ok lar. juz bigger appetite. hahaha..
gammahedging is rite. u need to take the whole cycle temp to have more accurate information. to detect ur O and baseline temp.
fr there then can c when u actually O.


haha. common. alot ppl beginning stage will like to eat junk food. got quite a few ladies also like tat.
u still ok lar. share ice cream wif ur hb. give me i sure finish one by myself. i also keep taking cold food due to the weather super hot now. lol... so pamper urself. watever u can eat juz eat.
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gammahedging said:
I guess that is to help in determining ur baseline temperatue. may be wrong tho
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When FF determine my O day, it would already have projected my coverline too, that's what happens for me. So usually once my temp drops and my AF comes, I stopped temping till my AF is over...very lazy hahaha
 
Sianz... dpo11 today but can feel the "water running around" feeling in my lower abdomen.. very similar to every pms I have... should be no chance again lo... :(
 
chocopiggie said:
Sianz... dpo11 today but can feel the "water running around" feeling in my lower abdomen.. very similar to every pms I have... should be no chance again lo... :(
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chocopiggie, dpo11 still early to tell ah.....

My man is discouraging me to go HSG xray of my fallopian tubes this Fri. I am just back to office today after 2 days of mc. Now I am still thinking whether to go HSG this cycle or not? This is my last step to complete my fertility checkup and next will probably still be IUI or SO-IUI. I dont feel like doing anything this cycle honestly. Just want to think of my hongkong trip!!! What will you do if you were me?
 
bubbleblue1 said:
chocopiggie, dpo11 still early to tell ah.....

My man is discouraging me to go HSG xray of my fallopian tubes this Fri. I am just back to office today after 2 days of mc. Now I am still thinking whether to go HSG this cycle or not? This is my last step to complete my fertility checkup and next will probably still be IUI or SO-IUI. I dont feel like doing anything this cycle honestly. Just want to think of my hongkong trip!!! What will you do if you were me?
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Hi, but y your hb is discouraging to go for HSG? Can u share what other fertility test you have done So far?
 
bubbleblue1 said:
whinypooh, which day r u in? Could the light light brown discharge be implantation bleeding??
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It is CD27 for me.. And my usual cycle is 28-29days.
I really doubt it is implantation bleeding cos it's getting pinkier in colour. :(
Started BBT but think I'm very nervous about it so can't sleep well at all so maybe temp also not accurate.
My temp has been going up down but around the range of 36.65-36.75c.
My temp for last month had a huge dip right before my AF came. Went from 36.62 to 36.3 then AF reported the next day.
 
whinypooh, then mostly your AF is reporting soon. I was like you, had such light bleeding on CD32. It's very strange cos it never happen to me before. Did you had it in previous cycles? My last cycle bbt temp shot up to 37.00 and stayed for 3 days, then on CD31 dropped to 36.7 CD32 further dropped to 36.3 and AF reported the next day. Now I realise having AF also must take bbt which I forgot. Oopppsss....
 
I usually have light brown discharge first before the actual AF will report.
BBT makes me quite nervous actually.
Thinking whether to stop it entirely and stop being so obsessed about TTC and all kinds of symptoms
 
angelbaby924 said:
Hi, but y your hb is discouraging to go for HSG? Can u share what other fertility test you have done So far?
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He kept saying to try naturally (that's like for almost 2 yrs liao lor). I think it's the high cost that he worried that I am paying..... Actually I really have doubt he wants another child. I had been seeing fertility gynae on my own actually. My gynae ordered the blood test for LH/FSH/Progrestone. My hb went thru blood & sperm test and found his soldiers in bad shape. For me, my progrestone level is on the lower side and I dont O as early as theory states altho my cycle is average 30days. So I think these are the potential causes of my infertility however my gynae dont encourage me to jump straight into IVF...
 
whinypooh said:
I usually have light brown discharge first before the actual AF will report.
BBT makes me quite nervous actually.
Thinking whether to stop it entirely and stop being so obsessed about TTC and all kinds of symptoms
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same here. I totally forgot abt BBTing also becos I was sick past few days. I am thinking of stopping everything this cycle and concentrate on my relaxation trip which I tell myself no hectic shopping. Just go eat, casual shop & RELAX!!! Last week scoot has promotion. Maybe you should plan to go holiday too...
 
bubbleblue1 said:
He kept saying to try naturally (that's like for almost 2 yrs liao lor). I think it's the high cost that he worried that I am paying..... Actually I really have doubt he wants another child. I had been seeing fertility gynae on my own actually. My gynae ordered the blood test for LH/FSH/Progrestone. My hb went thru blood & sperm test and found his soldiers in bad shape. For me, my progrestone level is on the lower side and I dont O as early as theory states altho my cycle is average 30days. So I think these are the potential causes of my infertility however my gynae dont encourage me to jump straight into IVF...
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But HSG is not to determine if u should go IUI or IVF. It is just to make sure that your tubes are not blocked. Coz if it is, whatever u do will be in vain, even natural. I think u shld finish up this last step, and have a piece of mind. As to whether to continue for IUI / IVF, that can wait
 
bubbleblue1 said:
same here. I totally forgot abt BBTing also becos I was sick past few days. I am thinking of stopping everything this cycle and concentrate on my relaxation trip which I tell myself no hectic shopping. Just go eat, casual shop & RELAX!!! Last week scoot has promotion. Maybe you should plan to go holiday too...
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Nice!!!
Where are you going? Are you sure you will settle for "CASUAL" shopping? :rolleyes:
It's been almost a year since I started TTC and it's really so stressful EVERY.SINGLE.TWW!!!
I really hope to just stop being so obsessive with TTC!!!
 


angelbaby924 said:
But HSG is not to determine if u should go IUI or IVF. It is just to make sure that your tubes are not blocked. Coz if it is, whatever u do will be in vain, even natural. I think u shld finish up this last step, and have a piece of mind. As to whether to continue for IUI / IVF, that can wait
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You are right, angelbaby924. HSG is to check if I have blocked fallopian tubes and I probably should just be done & over with it. What I am saying is cos my gynae mentioned that the blood test results show that although we have potential fertility problems, it's not a real cause of infertility at all plus I had conceived & given birth before. He cannot actually pinpoint at any "real" problem and we will probably have to start with IUI which I failed twice previously. I asked for straight jump to ivf knowing that my chances of success will be higher. That's why I say this final check up is a determining factor of what my gynae proposed fertility treatment next to help me conceive. My gyane is against me jumping straight into ivf tho. Sad right? Tks for your advise and I totally agree with you. I should just get it done once & for all.
 
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