found the list from other forum ...quite similar to what i bought for #1
Diaper changing
Cloth diapers, diaper liners & safety pins OR disposable diapers
Baby wipes
Diaper rash cream
Changing mat
Ruyi Oil/Telon Minyak Oil
Baby’s clothing
Tops (Short sleeved front button or ties – 10, few long-sleeved)
Long pants (7 nights per week )
Mittens (10 sets)
Socks/Booties (10 sets)
Cap ( only applicable if cut botak)
Swaddling blanket (3)
Bathing
Bathtub
Bath thermometer
Baby shampoo
Baby soap
Towel (2-3 pcs)
Sterile cotton balls in cool boiled water (for cleaning eyes) ( a few packs per wks)
Alcohol wipes + cotton bud + antiseptic powder (for cleaning cord)
Baby oil ( not applicable for me cos din use it ...so wasted)
Baby nail clipper
Feeding
Medela Breast pump
Sterilising equipment
cooler bag
Bottle brush
Bottles (at least 6) + teats + caps (2 small 150 ml size at least), watch out for teats hole sizes please!
Infant formula
Bibs (later for weaning)
Room
Cot – sheets, mattress, protector (2-3 sets in case rainign not dry
waterproof sheet
Others
Braun digital Thermometer
Gripe water
Going out
Diaper bag – thermos flask, changing mat
Baby carrier/pram
Car seat
for mummy
Nursing tops/ pyjamas /gowns (incl for hospital stay)
Nursing bra (6-7)
Breast pads
Nipple cream ( not applicable for me)
Maternity / normal pads (2 packs or more cos lochia is around 1 month long !!! )