(2014) ivf mummies support group

I went og bugis today. They also have avent promotion now. I only remember milk warmer is selling $59 cos may get this. But I think taka is still cheaper as what dolly post is 20+10% discount.
 


iwantahealthybaby said:
Circle if u feel shaky tummy u should get the tummy support already. Should be good.

Cheerywalnuts u practically make me lol. I am with dh now walking around before heading dinner place.
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Dunno leh. I still wearing tummy warmer from daiso. But will feel tummy wobbly when I walk.

I bought some new warmers but they feel tighter then very uncomfy for me.

Poss I got too much spare tyre aka fats there. Walk one step then tummy tremble alot. Hahaha!
 
Kitkats said:
I went og bugis today. They also have avent promotion now. I only remember milk warmer is selling $59 cos may get this. But I think taka is still cheaper as what dolly post is 20+10% discount.
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Kitkats, u also slowly taking chance to go out of the house? hopefully our spotting and bleeding will never never appear again!
 
Lynncandy & iwantahealthybaby, I just so so tummy in front of reserve seat in the train cos a young chap sitting. He actually gave up his seat to me told dh after alight from train cos he amuse why the guy gave me his seat. He also lol.
 
circlecircle said:
Kitkats, u also slowly taking chance to go out of the house? hopefully our spotting and bleeding will never never appear again!
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Hehe I have been going out these few days. Now whenever I go shopping mall, I will head to children dept to check out the baby stuffs and price. But so far haven't get anything yet. Have to do some homework first before buying.
I still have ms. Especially night time still vomit but is definately better than 2 weeks ago.
Yes I hope we will never see red again till we pop!
 
I am now at the clinic as my gastric strike. Totally no use after eating gaviscon.
Cheery you just make me laugh by your reserved seat posting haha.
heard that og the baby clot is cheap and Good.
 
LynnCandy said:
I am now at the clinic as my gastric strike. Totally no use after eating gaviscon.
Cheery you just make me laugh by your reserved seat posting haha.
heard that og the baby clot is cheap and Good.
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No choice cos tired now have official reason to take reserve seat somemore it's a young chap. if there's elderly I will give up my seat for them str away as they higher priority
 
Able to verify that after 12weeks, all the injections, pessaries and medications can stop already? Today I was told that i can officially finish up all my remaining medications and bye bye to all the medications, injections and pessaries.
 
Kitkats said:
Hehe I have been going out these few days. Now whenever I go shopping mall, I will head to children dept to check out the baby stuffs and price. But so far haven't get anything yet. Have to do some homework first before buying.
I still have ms. Especially night time still vomit but is definately better than 2 weeks ago.
Yes I hope we will never see red again till we pop!
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Heehee! Hearing this gives me confidence to go out too. Sometimes I think it is my own fear, stopping me from going out.

Maybe cos I always bed rest, then I feel so much cramping. Cos womb never get to exercise and move. So any expansion of the womb, I also feel the pain.

Actually after my hospitalisation, my mc only up to Mon 19 may. Which means the kkh doc poss allow me to be off bed rest after that.

I went to see tcm doc on tues 20 may then she still continue to advise bed rest la. She says beanie seems to grow better when I super guai and stay in bed.

I have been telling beanie. If u want nice food, then must be good beanie. strong strong sticky sticky stable stable then can go out eat good food. If not everyday got to tahan home cook food only
 
shireen_shiyun said:
Able to verify that after 12weeks, all the injections, pessaries and medications can stop already? Today I was told that i can officially finish up all my remaining medications and bye bye to all the medications, injections and pessaries.
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I think depends on individual case. If doc says can stop then no issue. If not, just take until the medicine finishes lor or when u next see ur doc?
 
I'm finally off work and back at home, showered up.

Didn't have a good start at work today because I MIA for 3 months. My boss is very nice and adjusts my workload. So today's work is pretty relaxing. But early in the morning, one colleague from another department came over and asked me straight in the face, "6 months already?" I said, "3 months." Then she asked loudly, "natural or IVF?" with all my other colleagues who were in the office and don't know I went for IVF. Even my boss gave her the stare. I kept quiet. Then she still dared to say, "aiya my son also went through IVF. What's the big deal?" I was like thinking, "hello! You don't mind telling the whole world your son goes through IVF, it doesn't mean everybody doesn't mind telling the same thing." Immediately, another colleague came and asked me if it's IVF. I don't know why some people can be so INSENSITIVE and disrespect others' privacy! Seriously, I don't mind telling that I went through IVF to conceive but provided people come and ask me personally and not openly like this.

Unhappy things aside. Today I can see my tummy protruding out very vividly.
 
Faithfullyyours, hugs. No worries, if they asked again just said it's your privacy. Btw you are also going to be SHAM after birth. . So bother about them anymore.
 
My direct colleagues didn't really ask me about the natural or IVF question. Instead they congratulated me and were happy for me and really asked me to be careful and tried to help as much as they could. I really appreciate that. It was some other colleagues from other departments whom I don't really work directly with came and gossiped away.
 
Shireen welcome welcome. Supposingly after week 12 should stop all but like what circle say better confirm with doc.

Kitkats glad to hear u can shop around and it's a happy thing looking for bb stuffs.

Lynncandy why gastric again? Didn eat properly? Doc say anything?

By the way today doc give me calcium pill and pharmacist advise me to eat an hr apart from ganilia cause it has calcium contents. So confirm ganilla cannot eat with milk.
 
Faithfullyyours, this "other dept" colleague is really very insensitive . How can she ask so openly like that. Some more she went thru it herself should know better that this is a sensitive topic to discuss openly. Don't bother about her . If is me I will show her my black face if she probe further. :p
 
circlecircle said:
Heehee! Hearing this gives me confidence to go out too. Sometimes I think it is my own fear, stopping me from going out.

Maybe cos I always bed rest, then I feel so much cramping. Cos womb never get to exercise and move. So any expansion of the womb, I also feel the pain.

Actually after my hospitalisation, my mc only up to Mon 19 may. Which means the kkh doc poss allow me to be off bed rest after that.

I went to see tcm doc on tues 20 may then she still continue to advise bed rest la. She says beanie seems to grow better when I super guai and stay in bed.

I have been telling beanie. If u want nice food, then must be good beanie. strong strong sticky sticky stable stable then can go out eat good food. If not everyday got to tahan home cook food only
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U can try go out but take it slowly. While shopping I will find chair to sit down n rest for awhile whenever I can. Take many break even for shopping. Haha
 
When I go out or shopping, I kp looking for place to sit. Like today halfway in pazzion wisma, I felt some cramps, I immediately sat down on the sofa .praying hard for tmr oscar smoothly..
 
iwantahealthybaby said:
Faithfullyours your colleague is one no brainer sorry to say that. Hate this type of insensitive person. Hate hate hate!
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Kitkats said:
Faithfullyyours, this "other dept" colleague is really very insensitive . How can she ask so openly like that. Some more she went thru it herself should know better that this is a sensitive topic to discuss openly. Don't bother about her . If is me I will show her my black face if she probe further. :p
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Yes I totally hate this kind of insensitive people too! That's why my boss also gave her the stare.
 
Iwantahealthybaby, don't know what's wrong with my stomach keeps on having gastric. Before preggy I already have gastric and heard that preggy will easily get gastric or heartburn so now it become worst for me.
Btw the medicine how to take. Ok we take aspirin and calcium first then 2 hrs later multi vit or how?
Faithfullyyours, don't think about the unhappiness if those insensitive people ask again you just tell them is your privacy and you don't wish to speak further. Anyway you should enjoy working now as next time become a SHAM no more chance to work. So enjoy it now hehe.
Tomorrow is dolly's turn for oscar ceremony. Enjoy the process..
 
iwantahealthybaby said:
Circle same. I also hope my mil fil don't show much concern which in 1st place they don't. Won't like buy tonics Etc all these so sometimes I feel wait till give birth then tell them Also ok. Bad hor feel this way. But really true feelings. They know they don't know really doesn't benefit me. In fact if they don't know I can still find excuse for them. If they know and do nothing I see them really not worth my respect. Sorry but hard hard to feel good.

I told my mum one most likely daughter my mum say Aiya girl boy all good most impt healthy. She seems so assuring lol. But I know of cause doesn't matter gender but I thinking perfect scenario.

Dec my freezing storage will end I don't know want to continue anot but ask me throw them away so sad. I still got 6 blasts left. But we are sure won't go for 3rd bb.

I got the 4-1 avent steriliser back then. But this sales not bad very worth for those haven't get. Only one day?
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I know everyone with twins will hope for a 龙凤胎。so can close shop. But same sex also good. They will be better playmates... grow up closer. Like me and my 2 brothers, close la but nothing much in common. But both of them super close, fight la or whatever, they love each other. Sometimes i feel extra.. haha

Actually when i did my ET, i also hope for twins... but i know my health condition, i got cervix incompetence, so by 2nd trimester i must stitch up my cervix if not cannot carry full term... singleton is better and safer choice which is why Dr Sadhana kept asking me to just transfer 1... but whatever, now i just pray my pregnancy will be smooth. Hope bb will be healthy and stick tight tight. Whatever 辛苦 i have to go through, as long as bb is healthy and safe is all worthwhile...
 
dolly_gal said:
My hauls today.. heehee
Like prisoner out from jail, too long no shop like this...
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So envious...

Still coping at home.. dare not go out after last week bleeding.

But save money ba, cos my hospitalization leave almost up and going to move into no pay leave soon.
 
mschar said:
I know everyone with twins will hope for a 龙凤胎。so can close shop. But same sex also good. They will be better playmates... grow up closer. Like me and my 2 brothers, close la but nothing much in common. But both of them super close, fight la or whatever, they love each other. Sometimes i feel extra.. haha

Actually when i did my ET, i also hope for twins... but i know my health condition, i got cervix incompetence, so by 2nd trimester i must stitch up my cervix if not cannot carry full term... singleton is better and safer choice which is why Dr Sadhana kept asking me to just transfer 1... but whatever, now i just pray my pregnancy will be smooth. Hope bb will be healthy and stick tight tight. Whatever 辛苦 i have to go through, as long as bb is healthy and safe is all worthwhile...
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How to know if one has cervix incompetence?
 
mschar said:
So envious...

Still coping at home.. dare not go out after last week bleeding.

But save money ba, cos my hospitalization leave almost up and going to move into no pay leave soon.
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I max out my 30 days of HL and 30 days of MC and still need to take 4 days of AL to cover 3 mths of MIA. But my company excludes Sat, Sun & PH. 5 day work week even though I need to work on Sat.
 
mschar said:
So envious...

Still coping at home.. dare not go out after last week bleeding.

But save money ba, cos my hospitalization leave almost up and going to move into no pay leave soon.
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Cheer up Mschar. Enjoy your rest. Don't think too much. I also had a bad bleeding incident last week. Understand your fears. Jia you jia you!

Your bleeding cleared up already? No more spotting right?
 
faithfullyyours said:
How to know if one has cervix incompetence?
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Actually most ppl wont know and also the doc will not check.

For most cases is ppl miscarriage during 2nd tri for no reason becos the cervix cannot hold the weight of the fetus and open up. You can ask you gynae to check if you want.

For me, i had some pre cancerous cells on my cervix 2 years ago. The doctor got to remove a huge part of my cervix where the cells are to prevent them to progress to cancer.. so now i am left with little little bit of cervix which since day 1 i told dr sadhana and my now gynae. Thats y my appt is like quite close, almost every week gotta go bk to let dr check if cervix is opening up.

Last week my dr tot opened up and say is say gotta stitch me up. Lucky not. So i still have to go for my oscar test on week 12 then if is ok. I will go and stitch up and bedrest all the way till delivery. Cannot walk cos mine really left very little and cannot afford to put pressure on it.
 
mschar said:
Actually most ppl wont know and also the doc will not check.

For most cases is ppl miscarriage during 2nd tri for no reason becos the cervix cannot hold the weight of the fetus and open up. You can ask you gynae to check if you want.

For me, i had some pre cancerous cells on my cervix 2 years ago. The doctor got to remove a huge part of my cervix where the cells are to prevent them to progress to cancer.. so now i am left with little little bit of cervix which since day 1 i told dr sadhana and my now gynae. Thats y my appt is like quite close, almost every week gotta go bk to let dr check if cervix is opening up.

Last week my dr tot opened up and say is say gotta stitch me up. Lucky not. So i still have to go for my oscar test on week 12 then if is ok. I will go and stitch up and bedrest all the way till delivery. Cannot walk cos mine really left very little and cannot afford to put pressure on it.
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Sounds scary. Each time I bleed, the doc did check cervix but each time also say close leh. Then will say bleeding is unexplained... Haiz..
 
iwantahealthybaby said:
Shireen welcome welcome. Supposingly after week 12 should stop all but like what circle say better confirm with doc.

Kitkats glad to hear u can shop around and it's a happy thing looking for bb stuffs.

Lynncandy why gastric again? Didn eat properly? Doc say anything?

By the way today doc give me calcium pill and pharmacist advise me to eat an hr apart from ganilia cause it has calcium contents. So confirm ganilla cannot eat with milk.
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Ty for Ur verification! ;) this is such a comforting place to be involved in ^^
 
mschar said:
Actually most ppl wont know and also the doc will not check.

For most cases is ppl miscarriage during 2nd tri for no reason becos the cervix cannot hold the weight of the fetus and open up. You can ask you gynae to check if you want.

For me, i had some pre cancerous cells on my cervix 2 years ago. The doctor got to remove a huge part of my cervix where the cells are to prevent them to progress to cancer.. so now i am left with little little bit of cervix which since day 1 i told dr sadhana and my now gynae. Thats y my appt is like quite close, almost every week gotta go bk to let dr check if cervix is opening up.

Last week my dr tot opened up and say is say gotta stitch me up. Lucky not. So i still have to go for my oscar test on week 12 then if is ok. I will go and stitch up and bedrest all the way till delivery. Cannot walk cos mine really left very little and cannot afford to put pressure on it.
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Really very scary... like silent hidden time bomb... Glad that you're in good hands now, I'm.sure Dr S will do.everything to ensure a safe pregnancy & delivery for you.
 
mapleleafy said:
Really very scary... like silent hidden time bomb... Glad that you're in good hands now, I'm.sure Dr S will do.everything to ensure a safe pregnancy & delivery for you.
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I am not with kkh already. I am seeing a senior doc outside who is also expert in oncogynae. So at least he understand my case...

Tmr is my appt.. pray hard. Actually every appt, i am very scared...
 
mschar said:
I am not with kkh already. I am seeing a senior doc outside who is also expert in oncogynae. So at least he understand my case...

Tmr is my appt.. pray hard. Actually every appt, i am very scared...
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It will be ok. We understand your fears, I believe everyone here keeps every one of us in prayers so dun worry. It will be ok! :)
 
iwantahealthybaby said:
Yah lynncandy I ask doc is bb looking at me she smile and say yes but slightly looking downwards lol. Then the totally face down bb showing off her spine. Haahaa

Yes lunch at wang cafe and after I almost done I realise the most impt thing. I forget add chilli. Pengz no wonder something missing.

I'm washing my car now ladies hope no rain...

I talk to beanies all at once haha. I just call them Twinnies!

Mapleleafy all your frozen bb is blastocyst? If u want more kids then u must go for natural birth heard csec can only open thrice. If open 4th time bb must be out by don't know how many weeks and it's dangerous too for mummy.

I transfer two blasts at fresh cycle no BfP and so didn think much of transfer two again during fet and lots of baby dance as well. Haha. Anyway my doc ok with me transferring two in fact I ask him transfer how many he say two lol
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So many posts to read while I was watching X-men lol my snow babies are all 3 day embryos, actually I got enough leh dunno why NUH so conservative say best to transfer at day 3 so all frozen on day 3 too. My first fresh I BFP but lost. Second time is FET I also dun think much liao, go out walk, go reno see & stand long hours, eat watermelon haha everything also do. Unlike first cycle I really bed rest as much as I can, take things easy, everyday homecooked food.

For mil & fil, I think just respect them cos they are hubby's parents, so I see them like parents too. If they treat us well then treat them nicer, if not also respect them. I'm quite lucky as in my in-laws are very kind folks, they were in the hospital with me during ER & my fil held my hand so tightly to help me into the car afterwards cos my hubby was wheelchair-bound (just had a ligament surgery). I will always remember that firm hand & my mil's ginger chicken essence. They are not the type to keep asking or buy a lot of tonics give u one but I know they truly care. Sometimes they dunno how to show affections but as children(half children) we just try to think of them in a positive light & we'll feel better, happier too :)
 
mschar said:
I am not with kkh already. I am seeing a senior doc outside who is also expert in oncogynae. So at least he understand my case...

Tmr is my appt.. pray hard. Actually every appt, i am very scared...
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Don't be scare mschar. U've gone through so much to reach here. Continue to jiayou. U r a v brave mommy!!
 
mschar said:
I know everyone with twins will hope for a 龙凤胎。so can close shop. But same sex also good. They will be better playmates... grow up closer. Like me and my 2 brothers, close la but nothing much in common. But both of them super close, fight la or whatever, they love each other. Sometimes i feel extra.. haha

Actually when i did my ET, i also hope for twins... but i know my health condition, i got cervix incompetence, so by 2nd trimester i must stitch up my cervix if not cannot carry full term... singleton is better and safer choice which is why Dr Sadhana kept asking me to just transfer 1... but whatever, now i just pray my pregnancy will be smooth. Hope bb will be healthy and stick tight tight. Whatever 辛苦 i have to go through, as long as bb is healthy and safe is all worthwhile...
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ms char, i applaude ur courage 2go through ivf n pregnancy despite knowin u may hav 2face this health conditñ. hope this pregnancy goes well till 9m, no more surprise!! i heard of this conditñ b4, stay alert!
 
To be honest, there r many times when i feel really selfish that i just approached my hubby to say can i just close shop... but seeing his disappointed face and my daughter being so lonely.. i just tell myself to do it...

To me, passing by every week being pregnant is a bliss now... is like i am worried abt 1st tri, but i am also worried if i can carry through 2nd and 3rd tri. I also worried, abt the cerclage(stitching of cervix), scared it will cost infection, scared the GA i am put on durong surgery will affect fetus... untill the day i hold my bb im my arm, if not everyday i am worrying...

Actually my mum told me once,every mother worry abt their child from the moment u know u r pregnant till the moment u pass on... even when ur child is 30 yr old, to u , he/she is still your little one in ur eyes....

做了妈妈才知道妈妈的伟大。
 
Good morning ladies, look at what I am having. It is not just big breakfast but breakfast deluxe:eek:
 

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LynnCandy said:
Good morning ladies, look at what I am having. It is not just big breakfast but breakfast deluxe:eek:
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See how my cough progress later. . My bb must have felt very disturbed and couldn't sleep too. :D nice breakfast! But I guess I'll have to eat light food for the time being. No more heaty spicy food. :rolleyes:
Lynncandy, u drinking tea or kopi?
 


I am a coffee lover, but ever since I have got beanie I am unable to take the coffee taste. Everyone said that it is a good thing for me. haha. I change to hot milo. For now I only drink Horlicks or milo or those non-caffeine tea like peppermint once in a while.

How about u and everyone here?
 
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