yah... and just to rant a teeny weeny bit here.
I sometimes really cannot tahan my in laws' overwhelming attention now. I'm not on fantastic terms with my in laws... FIL has a fury temper (but now better since we moved out) and MIL had been rivaling with me for my hubby's attention (like stroking his arms, back and head in front of me, telling him to finish every rice she cook or else she will be angry). I have no idea what I did and I just simply bo chup since I don't see them often... But since I'm preggy, they are very excited and their attitude towards me changed 360 degrees! and FIL made sooooo many plans for us. MIL will call me and asked me to eat this and that... I casually told her that bird nest and all the tonics will wait till 2nd trimester cos 1st trimester is 'not stable' and she will nag at me not to say these stuff to make her worry etc. Because they have so many plans for the baby, it vex me to no end... Not that I don't want to share my happiness with them, but I feel obliged that this baby must enter this world with NO issue. Very tiring...