godblessmybb
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Hi Shirley, usually af will start ard 6 weeks after d&c. All the best deary.
(2013 TTC after loss support group)
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godblessmybb
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Hi Shirley, me same same. So far so good
hopeful_mum
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Shirley, check with u what type of temples I can go pray har? I wanted to do it last time but didn't.
Recently been so physically tired shifting new office and learning from my dad business. I'm physically exhausted. I'm a night owl right but I'm so tired I slp at 9pm or 10pm. Hahaha. Even preggie also nvr felt so exhausted.
I'm waiting patiently for my appt on 26 aug and starting to try again in sep
Recently been so physically tired shifting new office and learning from my dad business. I'm physically exhausted. I'm a night owl right but I'm so tired I slp at 9pm or 10pm. Hahaha. Even preggie also nvr felt so exhausted.
I'm waiting patiently for my appt on 26 aug and starting to try again in sep
http://www.pohernshih.info/
Hi hopefully mum , u k go this website thi check on the infor about the temple
Hi hopefully mum , u k go this website thi check on the infor about the temple
hopeful_mum
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Thanks Shirley. Ya I want to. Sigh 3 times Liao sometimes just have to believe a bit hor. I don't know leh. Dilemma. See how. Find out first.
mangohope
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Both d&c #1 at 11 weeks #2 at 12 weeks.
I hope I can try again soon.. But my #2 only got it after trying for 16 months... So this time round dont know need to take how long again ):
My mum is chasing me for a grandchild and those relatives can really be quite sickening too hais
I hope I can try again soon.. But my #2 only got it after trying for 16 months... So this time round dont know need to take how long again ):
My mum is chasing me for a grandchild and those relatives can really be quite sickening too hais
my family din chase me for a grandchild when they saw what i went thru during the etopic.
but i felt is my duty to give them a grandchild esp hubby is only son...
broke the preggy news to FIL when we heard bb heartbeat at week 6. he was overjoyed and 2 weeks later, we drop the bomb that bb is gone and the bigger one came 3 weeks later. so i think he oso dont dare to ask if we are trying.
dont stress urself. it will only make things worse..PM if you need to chat.
lets jiayou!
but i felt is my duty to give them a grandchild esp hubby is only son...
broke the preggy news to FIL when we heard bb heartbeat at week 6. he was overjoyed and 2 weeks later, we drop the bomb that bb is gone and the bigger one came 3 weeks later. so i think he oso dont dare to ask if we are trying.
dont stress urself. it will only make things worse..PM if you need to chat.
lets jiayou!
bb_hopeful
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mango,
does ur family noe abt ur mc? if not, and if u dun mind, maybe can share wif them. so dat they noe u r trying.
i break preggie news to my mum once i noe abt it, and subsequently any mc. so she prewarn relatives not to ask me. i had very peaceful cny for a few yrs after dat.
but mil keep mum abt my mc, so i used to get bombarded by her relatives.
after #1 came along, they started asking abt #2. quite sian... cos kena scolding and nagging left and right for not having #2
does ur family noe abt ur mc? if not, and if u dun mind, maybe can share wif them. so dat they noe u r trying.
i break preggie news to my mum once i noe abt it, and subsequently any mc. so she prewarn relatives not to ask me. i had very peaceful cny for a few yrs after dat.
but mil keep mum abt my mc, so i used to get bombarded by her relatives.
after #1 came along, they started asking abt #2. quite sian... cos kena scolding and nagging left and right for not having #2
mangohope
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hi juju78,
yupp my mum knows it, she took care of me during those mini confinement, i feel bad and wants to give her a grandchild soon as i see her aging ):
the stress part is my husband side they dont know about my mc but just year by year chasing us, guess i will skip cny till i can lay one out hahas!
Twinsy,
Lets jiayou together and wait for our rainbow baby!
yupp my mum knows it, she took care of me during those mini confinement, i feel bad and wants to give her a grandchild soon as i see her aging ):
the stress part is my husband side they dont know about my mc but just year by year chasing us, guess i will skip cny till i can lay one out hahas!
Twinsy,
Lets jiayou together and wait for our rainbow baby!
Lambi
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hi sisters
im back after some 'me' time..rather depressing but no choice life goes on and we have plans again..not that i am strong cos i am not, but cannot help but everyday is like just aimlessly spent..sorry sound so emo again..*haiz*
so sorry to see newcomers again here..
twinsy
me too my hubby kinda only son as he's the eldest and his younger bro is a handicap. So if we don't hv children to inherit the properties, then all will be left to my hb's cousin's children (but different surname as our's)..i feel kinda pressured as well thus.
mangohope
my case was sudden natural mc at 11.5weeks, but then lastly saw the sac not that big so think it should be stopped growing at about 8 or 9 weeks.
how are the rest of the jiemei here? Hope you gals are keeping well and doing things that occupy your minds..i am trying to watch youtube for now to ease my worries and hurt..
im back after some 'me' time..rather depressing but no choice life goes on and we have plans again..not that i am strong cos i am not, but cannot help but everyday is like just aimlessly spent..sorry sound so emo again..*haiz*
so sorry to see newcomers again here..
twinsy
me too my hubby kinda only son as he's the eldest and his younger bro is a handicap. So if we don't hv children to inherit the properties, then all will be left to my hb's cousin's children (but different surname as our's)..i feel kinda pressured as well thus.
mangohope
my case was sudden natural mc at 11.5weeks, but then lastly saw the sac not that big so think it should be stopped growing at about 8 or 9 weeks.
how are the rest of the jiemei here? Hope you gals are keeping well and doing things that occupy your minds..i am trying to watch youtube for now to ease my worries and hurt..
hi Chris,
hope u are feeling better. i also feel heartache when i see pregnant ladies in my office and the scar on my tummy..i will think of my lost babies.
i stop reading on threads of getting pregant, symptons etc. spend more time doing exercise and watching tv.
i was talking to my fren stress starts the moment you are trying to conceive and until the day we die of old age. we will nv stop worrying about our kids.
that day i saw on FB my friend gave birth to twins! and i teared quietly..coz i dont want hubby to worry.
Mangohope,
my in-laws relatives also dont know i MC. so every CNY they will ask hubby when is his turn. they nv direct questions to me coz i am not that "friendly". hahaha.
hope u are feeling better. i also feel heartache when i see pregnant ladies in my office and the scar on my tummy..i will think of my lost babies.
i stop reading on threads of getting pregant, symptons etc. spend more time doing exercise and watching tv.
i was talking to my fren stress starts the moment you are trying to conceive and until the day we die of old age. we will nv stop worrying about our kids.
that day i saw on FB my friend gave birth to twins! and i teared quietly..coz i dont want hubby to worry.
Mangohope,
my in-laws relatives also dont know i MC. so every CNY they will ask hubby when is his turn. they nv direct questions to me coz i am not that "friendly". hahaha.
Lambi
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Hi twinsy
thanks im much better now
spending time with our 2 furbabies--think they somewhat know that we are emo and came with gifts-in the form of dead birds and mice lol ..for us to cheer us up --
wow new forum new hope ..wishing all sisters here a great start to a brand new week!
thanks im much better now
spending time with our 2 furbabies--think they somewhat know that we are emo and came with gifts-in the form of dead birds and mice lol ..for us to cheer us up --
wow new forum new hope ..wishing all sisters here a great start to a brand new week!
bbcripps
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Hi ladies! New look for the forum, new hope for our quest for a healthy happy baby! Hope everybody is doing ok. Today I got abit emo in the office, a colleague due 3 weeks after me has such a nice prominent bump already, I couldn't help but cry a little in my heart for my little peanut that didn't make it. Really hope to succeed again soon. Jia you ladies!
babydusty
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same as me. i got ectopic. den block tubes. den i need ivf. den when bfp, sac seen but not growing den comes the natural miscarriage. haiz!
babydusty
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are you in pain when u pass out the clots?
Lambi
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Lambi
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babydusty
thankfully now you cleared your tubes already? Maybe can try naturally see how before your ivf cycle?
Lambi
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bbcrips
*sayang sayang* emo for a while can already ok..must chin up ok gal
I am trying to think positive also..you trying again now?Sisters trying again soon...I read today on Yahoo that track your own mucus and try during 'wet' times lol
http://sg.news.yahoo.com/women-often-miss-easy-way-increase-chances-getting-130411232.html
so if today is the day, pounce your hb tonight! whahaha
bbcripps
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Thanks chrisl, I will keep my chin up n tell myself I will succeed again one day soon. I'm going on a much needed holiday for 2.5 weeks next week, hopefully all the R&R can lead to a little miracle. Think work stress is really killing my chances. My doc doesn't think I will ovulate before I get my first normal AF after D&C due early Aug, but I did get a positive OPK last Tues, plus lots of egg white cervical mucus (sorry, too much info!), so I just grabbed my hubby n whacked! For 4 consecutive nights! Haha. Think I almost gave the old man a heart attack. Every month only one chance mah, cannot don't try. How about you? Jia you jia you ok, we will graduate together one day soon.
babydusty
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chrisl: tubes are not cleared. Hmmmm i bfp thru fresh cycle ivf. so natural is never possible for me with one block tube and the other one cut.
mangohope
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Hi Chrisl,
Took the blood test, checking if I have sticky blood issues
The doctor say the chromosomes test is normal so now I guess the problem lies with me.
I feel like a murderer, if not of my killer cells one is 1 yo another is almost 20 weeks.
its heart breaking to hear all this and I really hope to find the cure soon!
Right now i'm waiting for my AF and hope to try soon
hopeful_mum
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Ladies sorry for having newcomers. Been busy trying to adapt to working with on my dads business.
Chris big hugs!
Ladies I'm sure someday we will be mums. I had 3 mcs and I'm not giving up. Definitely sad and emo at times too. The worst day I had recently was my hubby was emo. He went drinking then I picked him up.
In the car he was tipsy so he told me how he felt. He says he shd be at home playing with the kids instead of drinking alone at home. He is so sad that we had 3 mcs and it really makes me heartbroken.
Twinsy how long after ectopic did ur af arrives? My op was 5weeks plus ago and af not showing yet. When can u try?
By the way mango and twinsy the ladies here recommended me to go nuh. They specialised on recurring mc. I'm
Not sure if they see anyone after 2mcs. My appt is on 26 aug. keep u all posted.
Lets Jia you together.
Chris big hugs!
Ladies I'm sure someday we will be mums. I had 3 mcs and I'm not giving up. Definitely sad and emo at times too. The worst day I had recently was my hubby was emo. He went drinking then I picked him up.
In the car he was tipsy so he told me how he felt. He says he shd be at home playing with the kids instead of drinking alone at home. He is so sad that we had 3 mcs and it really makes me heartbroken.
Twinsy how long after ectopic did ur af arrives? My op was 5weeks plus ago and af not showing yet. When can u try?
By the way mango and twinsy the ladies here recommended me to go nuh. They specialised on recurring mc. I'm
Not sure if they see anyone after 2mcs. My appt is on 26 aug. keep u all posted.
Lets Jia you together.
babydusty
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hopeful_mum: reading yr post makes me control my tears. Man are always the brave one and seldom speaks out how he feels. When they does, its just truthful wods. But I dont know whether its good to know coz it just makes us sad. My hubby too never tell me how he felt, but deep down I know he is lonely. I felt lonely too when its just the two of us. We just dont do things together happily.
Lambi
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hahahah bbcrips you are funny when you said 'the old man' !!! Me ah taking things easy for now..concentrating on hse reno 1st..
Lambi
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ah ok ok i see ... hmm, keep positive and i believe one day God will see our efforts and reward us... you can try to build up your body 1st b4 commencing on the new cycle, so you might get good enough eggs to even freeze til then. You have any frosties from your 1st fresh not?
Lambi
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Hi Chrisl,
Took the blood test, checking if I have sticky blood issues
The doctor say the chromosomes test is normal so now I guess the problem lies with me.
I feel like a murderer, if not of my killer cells one is 1 yo another is almost 20 weeks.
its heart breaking to hear all this and I really hope to find the cure soon!
Right now i'm waiting for my AF and hope to try soon
Oh? Do you have natural killer cells? I have a friend who have that as well and only found out later after 2 mc, but now happy mum of 2 beautiful girls..so there's hope de ok..just get a good doc and follow up....
Lambi
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I feel sorry to hear that gal...it sure isn't easy for our partners either..Men don't really say much but they feel the pain as much as we do. Have you thought of a short getaway in view of the coming PH and long weekend? perhaps might do you both good to enjoy each other's company..
wow..managing a business is not easy..i peifu you
mangohope
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Hi hopeful_mum,
After my 2nd D&C I found this thread and I actually read thru all your posts it makes me feel so much better!
You are so brave and optimistic!
I guess your husband is finding his way to make himself feel better and also don't want to upset you, so don't think too much and like chrisl said, its time for a holiday for the both of you!
Get out of town and put all this behind 1st, after my 2nd mc I went to bkk with my husband to hide for a few days to cool ourself and went to a few temple to pray for the babies.
Hi chrisl,
i'm still waiting for my results, hopefully can cure, if to the extend of NUH I not too sure if I can afford it now....
How long did your friend took to cure it? Going for my tcm to see if she can help tiao my af to come faster :/
After my 2nd D&C I found this thread and I actually read thru all your posts it makes me feel so much better!
You are so brave and optimistic!
I guess your husband is finding his way to make himself feel better and also don't want to upset you, so don't think too much and like chrisl said, its time for a holiday for the both of you!
Get out of town and put all this behind 1st, after my 2nd mc I went to bkk with my husband to hide for a few days to cool ourself and went to a few temple to pray for the babies.
Hi chrisl,
i'm still waiting for my results, hopefully can cure, if to the extend of NUH I not too sure if I can afford it now....
How long did your friend took to cure it? Going for my tcm to see if she can help tiao my af to come faster :/
hopeful_mum
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I wanted to reply so badly hor but ti hate this new layout.it makes it very difficult to read on my mobile.
ya, I am upset to see my hubby like that, but good thing is after married for 6 years we are still very much in love. coz he travels a lot so I guess distance makes our hearts more fonder. lol.
mangohope, I m glad I give u some positive energy.
chris, how are u getting along? when trying again?
babydusty, don't let mc affect your life. I know its tough, but you know, even when you have kids, this old man will be walking down a long journey with u. so try to do things happily.
sorry ah if I missed out any of you. I have been trying for 2 years, esp since last aug till now I have become an expert of looking at my own ewcm. I can actually know when I ovulate and im quite accurate. lol coz I use opks as well. so when I think so and I test, quite zhun one.
its about knowing your own body. before my ovulation I sure bloated and I can feel twinges so I know im ovulating soon. but now after mc, I cannot feel much. its been 6 weeks since the operation still no signs of Af but I did thought I ovulated. I guess my eggs are taking a break and throwing tantrums. anyhow I cant try until I go NUH, so im just waiting IMPATIENTLY.
ya, I am upset to see my hubby like that, but good thing is after married for 6 years we are still very much in love. coz he travels a lot so I guess distance makes our hearts more fonder. lol.
mangohope, I m glad I give u some positive energy.
chris, how are u getting along? when trying again?
babydusty, don't let mc affect your life. I know its tough, but you know, even when you have kids, this old man will be walking down a long journey with u. so try to do things happily.
sorry ah if I missed out any of you. I have been trying for 2 years, esp since last aug till now I have become an expert of looking at my own ewcm. I can actually know when I ovulate and im quite accurate. lol coz I use opks as well. so when I think so and I test, quite zhun one.
its about knowing your own body. before my ovulation I sure bloated and I can feel twinges so I know im ovulating soon. but now after mc, I cannot feel much. its been 6 weeks since the operation still no signs of Af but I did thought I ovulated. I guess my eggs are taking a break and throwing tantrums. anyhow I cant try until I go NUH, so im just waiting IMPATIENTLY.
Lambi
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Hi hopeful_mum,
After my 2nd D&C I found this thread and I actually read thru all your posts it makes me feel so much better!
You are so brave and optimistic!
I guess your husband is finding his way to make himself feel better and also don't want to upset you, so don't think too much and like chrisl said, its time for a holiday for the both of you!
Get out of town and put all this behind 1st, after my 2nd mc I went to bkk with my husband to hide for a few days to cool ourself and went to a few temple to pray for the babies.
Hi chrisl,
i'm still waiting for my results, hopefully can cure, if to the extend of NUH I not too sure if I can afford it now....
How long did your friend took to cure it? Going for my tcm to see if she can help tiao my af to come faster :/
Im not sure how long she took though, but i figured out around 1-2 years cos i think it's around there after her wedding then she got her 1st child. A TCM might be a good idea as well to tiao your body. I am also taking some bazhen as and when, in addition to my daily fishoils and multivits..
For your condition, may i ask if you have frequent flu/cold like symptoms whenever you tested positive or during the 2ww and period leading to before the mc?
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Lambi
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you also married in 2007? Me too! I am trying again after my doc appointment when she comes back from summer holidays week after, i hope she'll refer me to the hospital for further checks..
mangohope
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Hi chrisl,
Yupp I always felt sick after I got preg mayb the third time I must really tc! The 1st one I even scalded myself with hot water ended with a fever. Now that you asked, I realize I always kana flu all this only when I'm preg.
Hopefulmum,
Continue to jiayou!
We can all have our rainbow baby one day!
hopeful_mum
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Yeah Chris. I got married in 2007! Lol married early at 26 but wasn't ready to have kids. By 29 ready then all the mcs
Mango hope same here I know I'm pregnant when I started feeling emo out of nothing! Lol
Yes ladies lets all keep motivating each other and move forward and one day we will have our rainbows
Mango hope same here I know I'm pregnant when I started feeling emo out of nothing! Lol
Yes ladies lets all keep motivating each other and move forward and one day we will have our rainbows
Lambi
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mangohope
Why i asked also cos i have the same symptoms or sick during those period..i hv not checked for natural killer cells will check for it this time. Maybe during this period until you see your doc, mark down specifically when you not feel well eg when you get flu or cold or any infections eg: UTI etc.good to tell your doc so he/she can take note
BTW, your profile pic very cute! is that your doggie?
Lambi
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Yeah Chris. I got married in 2007! Lol married early at 26 but wasn't ready to have kids. By 29 ready then all the mcs
Mango hope same here I know I'm pregnant when I started feeling emo out of nothing! Lol
Yes ladies lets all keep motivating each other and move forward and one day we will have our rainbows
me also was kinda honeymoon period 1st then when got ready all these happened too..but hey it sure made us better appreciate what will be blessed to us in future
Jia you!
mangohope
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mangohope
Why i asked also cos i have the same symptoms or sick during those period..i hv not checked for natural killer cells will check for it this time. Maybe during this period until you see your doc, mark down specifically when you not feel well eg when you get flu or cold or any infections eg: UTI etc.good to tell your doc so he/she can take note
BTW, your profile pic very cute! is that your doggie?
Hi chrisl,
Yupp waiting for my blood test result and check with the doctor re this issue.
Btw are you still seeing just a normal Gynae? Or a specialist?
Thanks hahas, yup that's my dog
Hopefulmum,
Update us after your check up at NUH, will like go find out more also
Lambi
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Hi chrisl,
Yupp waiting for my blood test result and check with the doctor re this issue.
Btw are you still seeing just a normal Gynae? Or a specialist?
Thanks hahas, yup that's my dog
Hopefulmum,
Update us after your check up at NUH, will like go find out more also
I will be going to a normal GP and hopefully she will refer me to the hospital for further checks. Else i'll be coming back SG to the normal polyclinic then NUH
Is that a maltese? I used to have a maltese too...they are small loud creatures aren't they? hahaaha mine was a walking doorbell
hi Hopeful,
sorry this new layout is driving me nuts. and i cant login with my pwd. ..my AF came 5.5 weeks after my etopic. & thanks for recommending NUH to me.
i am just trying to rest longer since DH is not ready yet...i will try in Oct. our 3rd anniversary!
hopeful_mum
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Hi hi ladies. I'm so confused my af not here yet and i felt "ovulation" thrice! Coz I always get the bloating etc. and still no af. This thur will be full 7 weeks moving to 8 week of af. Lol ppl count w7d4 for pregnancy I count w7d4 for no af. Lol crap!
Yeah I will sure share any results after my visit to nuh. I hear lotsa of good things there. But I encourage anyone here who is contemplating with the idea to see the poly clinic dr ASAP wait 2-4 weeks for first appt. then another 2-6weeks for the actual appt with those professors. It's really costly without subsidy but u can shorten the time probably by half or more! Anyhow, cox my hcg level was so low at 300 plus I shd be getting my normal
Cycle already. Sigh. I just took an ovulation test and its positive like seriously??!!! Argh.
Yeah I will sure share any results after my visit to nuh. I hear lotsa of good things there. But I encourage anyone here who is contemplating with the idea to see the poly clinic dr ASAP wait 2-4 weeks for first appt. then another 2-6weeks for the actual appt with those professors. It's really costly without subsidy but u can shorten the time probably by half or more! Anyhow, cox my hcg level was so low at 300 plus I shd be getting my normal
Cycle already. Sigh. I just took an ovulation test and its positive like seriously??!!! Argh.
hopeful_mum
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Well I just tested. Nope I'm not preggie. Lol I thought I was too. Lol
mangohope
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Where are you now? Not in sg? Nope it's a shihtzu hahas! Lucky there is this lil fellow around during all this period! Actually was thinking like how my kid will play with the dog but ya ): no such luck yet!