gymie: really depend if u are pantang anot.. some ppl nv believe it.. so they do it. Even if anything, they nv will think its becose they visited or so.
Another thing is your in laws or parent pantang on this? for me Grandparent and my inlaws ask me not to attend any of these full month, wedding etc during 1st tri. So i skip for all. For to good my bb which dun come easy for me.. i listen to them.