Hi Lilac, we have always wanted a 3rd child. Currently already have 2 boys. Of course it would be nice to have a girl for #3 but even if a boy, we are happy too. It took us a while to finally take the step to try for #3.... cos' 2nd was very premature and chances of having another premature baby is higher as compared those mummies who carried their babies to term. We are trusting God to help me carry the baby to term. That's also why we spaced out #2 and #3. #1 is 6yrs old, #2 is 4 yrs old and #3 will be born this year. And gynae says 90% #3 is going to be a boy. I feel babyhood is quite ok leh... cos' they just sleep, eat and poop. I feel its toddlerhood onwards that's the tough part. Caring for them, teaching them, guiding them, nurturing them etc. And when they reach adolescents. Oh gosh....