(2012) TTC for #2 & More Mummies !

[jo3309]

missy, u there? msn me pls...

 

[airy2310]

finally, i see stains...i wait it for so long...but duno when come full force...
have cramp for past 2 weeks, and soreboobs start weekend..

i cannot take it anymore, i would like to see u, my dear AF, faster come!!

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">jomummy, go away! =P</font>

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">airy maybe we r cycle buddies! im waiting for full force also. so far only staining. zzz. wipe then see red. no wipe no red. zzz.

gritty, u didnt use opks ?</font>

 

[ryan_mummy]

Can I join? Also TTC for 2012..
I wanna share that I use http://mymonthlycycles.com to track my past 29 cycles.. It's very good in predicting next period n ovulation. But seems that these past 3months I can't get pregnant.

I have a 3.5yo boy whom i bf for 3yrs. i'm FTWM.

I am trying for a girl.. So i'm adapting the shettles method. AF didn't report this month but HPT &amp; Bld Test shows <2 HCG lvl.. So I guess I was so keen on being pregnant that my AF decided to go AWL.

 

[donkeymami]

Mrng ladies!

giftty, u can try to take ur temp in the mrng (the moment u wake up)if u O-ed temp shd b higher eg. abv 36.5

 

[airy2310]

missy,

i normally wont be like tat leh, 1st time like tat..maybe after surgery lor..
i cant take the PMS hope it faster come lor

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">sad lor. sigh. someone else i knw is pregs. arghhhh.......!</font>

 

[bliss_ling]

meinme, true hor think predictor not accurate leh..

Anyone living in Yishun / North area? Next time can arrange for a meetup.. lol

oh yes, who want the pri school ranking har? I forget whose that mummy liao..

Link: www.channeleducation.xxx.sg
please replace xxx with com

 

[bliss_ling]

anyone kids manage to get into Chong Fu Primary in Yishun?

 

[bliss_ling]

or anyone kids in RGPS?

 

[jaszysplace]

Feeling super blue these days. My HB suddenly decided that we should hold back our plans for #2. But I just hope to try so that the age gap will not be too wide by the time I conceived, rather than wait till #1 is 3-4yrs old then try for another year or even longer. Looks like I have to talk to him about it as he's "avoiding" BD. Haiz....

 

[airy2310]

bliss,
i arranged b4, unsuccesfull! haha everybody hav own programee lor, lol...
me, lynzi, missy, and some of the girls are at North.
which part of yishun do u stay?

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">*sayang jasmin* hmmm... y not u track yourself then seduce him.. ahahah! dont let him knw you are tracking yr O... then just do it...

ling, yeh! me in Semb! Lynz in Adm! airy in Yishun! heh! Jomummy in AMK! charlotte in Yew Tee! jasmin also YT! the rest i not so sure. hurhurhur. </font>

 

[jaszysplace]

missy
I actually did track my O &amp; wanted to BD on those days. But he avoided by going to bed late, no chance...
I keep hinting to him that there are so many ppl who have been trying for more than a year.
Think we must talk it out &amp; come to a consensus.

 

[ryan_mummy]

Jasmin: my hb also not too keen.. in fact, it scared him when i wanna bd cause he scared kenna baby.. i guess it's bad to pressurise our man?

 

[jaszysplace]

Petrina
I'm also contemplating if I should talk it out with him coz then he will always associate BD with baby-making and it becomes stressful. But I'm also deprived (sounds desperado here.. lol) and am afraid that we only want to try 1-2 yrs later where the age gap gets too wide &amp; more stressful if I don't conceive.

I'm thinking to leave things as it is now. Just BD whenever we feel like it w/o protection &amp; if we hit the jackpot, it will be a bonus.

 

[star_eliz]

pertrina/jasmin
better discuss with hubby.. if preggie and he's not ready how??

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">jasmin, yes talk to him then. tell him just do it as per normal. if really kena then its God's plan for you both. Tell him a normal couple also need to xxx... =P </font>

 

[rainie]

Jasmin/Pertrina, shd talk it out with hubby as having a baby is a couple thing....can't work out with 1 person thinking so best to iron out the differences. My hubby also scare of having another baby when my #1 was 2 years old....financially n physically stress out...although now a bit too late but its better if both can get ready n welcome the baby with open arms than not ready n like being forced to accept the baby....

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">gritty, hb reservist is stay in. but he will be out during hari raya. n the wkends. i shall go gynae to try to catch... if i O early means might be able to catch before he goes for reservist... if not i also dont know how.. so worried i O when he is in camp

he will go in when im CD10. Book out when im CD 12/13. Book in CD14. Book out CD19/20. Book in CD21. then finally finish when im CD22. lol! got very big lapses in btwn the CD14 to CD19/20 ...

wa i must plan my BD schedule. WAHAHAHAHA!

BD CD9 / CD13 / CD16 / CD20

aiyo can catch or not?

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[donkeymami]

missy, since this mth ur hubby nit to reservist think jz BD as &amp; when u can bah later u paid scan the egg yet ur schedule cannot meet ur egg wasted the $ &amp; efforts.

 

[ryan_mummy]

yes.. muz talk.. it took me 1yr to convince hb.. though he still feel like 1 is enuff..
if #2 comes along, he won't mind. i guess he was also put off my me trying for a girl. so i had to catch timing and positioning.. keke

now i m relaxed.. as long as we don't bd during the (boy making days) i chin chye bd whenever he feels like it.

 

[gritty]

missycandy.....BD everyday dat ur HB is in la!!! Haha! Then stay horizontal all the way....keke easier said than done!

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">stay horizontal ????? </font>

 

[bliss_ling]

missy and hop, i staying in yishun

 

[comingchamp]

missycandy:
ur #1 is 2.5 yrs old rite? can take sch bus liao ah? wat sch she goes to? is it full day cc?

dotzzz:
yah, think sg gynaes all like to play safe and give duphaston... juz take for peace of mind lor...

 

[bliss_ling]

any idea why when test kit is tested neagtive and menses yet come for a week, gynae will advise for blood test?

 

[bliss_ling]

i was also given duphaston thou my menses yet come and i tested negatuve using clear blue.. 1st time my menses go hay wire

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">comingchamp, yups. She's been taking for a few mths... I think since march or April... She goes to Starlearners at sembawang ... The bus picks her up from d porch at 630am and drops her off at 630pm... When my mum was staying w me, she took the 815am bus... They have a few time slots

There is a helper in d bus... Initially she cried but by 3rd day she waved bye n smiled. Lol </font>

 

[gritty]

Missycandy - so that the soldiers will stay in!

 

[prosper]

Hihi,
Want to check with mummies here, today is my CD12, when can I get started to try? Do not wish to miss it. My cycle is usually 35-40 days

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">helloooooooooo prosper!!! If you can, faster make appt see gynae n see if he can pin point when you are going to ovulate so you can bd successfully... If not, use opks if you have... If not, just bd every other day from now until cd 26. Monitor your own cervical mucus. Usually when going to o, have more ewcm.good luck !! </font>

 

[tigress]

Prosper, you can start to BD now. Try to BD alt days until CD26. Why CD 26? Your longest cycle is CD40, so you less 14 days from 40 which is most likely your O date. Very siong for your hubby

My AF is still MIA, today is CD32, tested but BFN. Waiting for AF to arrive, if not my hubby will be outstation

 

[jo3309]

yesterday went to c gynae to scan for egg,,as expected i still not yet O althou its CD14..will go back again this Sat..total cost S$140 consultation $50, scan $50, pap smear $40.

gynae say i hav polycystic so resulted in irregular menses..she suggest i can take clomid..will see how this Sat...

will b going back to Msia end of Aug from 26th night till 30th night..so if i O ard tat few days..i will miss my egg...

 

[pinnky]

hi mummies..can i join? I also ttc for 2nd..knowing some mummies staying at north..me too

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">jomummy, aiyo then how? hmmm... u go bk msia canot bd ? hb not going ah ?

hi pinnky

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[blue_turtle7]

Hi Pinnky.
Good to see you here!

Hello everyone!
I'm also trying to TCC for #2. Good luck everyone! Also staying in the north.

 

[jo3309]

missy, ya hb not going back..he has to work on 29th as the malay colleague hav to take leave..bo bian lor..hopefully i will O early lor..

 

[jo3309]

Hi Pinnky &amp; Blue turtle!

 

[blue_turtle7]

jo mummy: BD on 26 before u leave... and bd again on 30 when u come back. the soldiers can stay alive for abt 12 to 24 hrs... and the egg will also stay alive for about 2 days right...
so still got chance.

 

[jo3309]

blue turtle, hb gotta leave hse for work @ 6am every Fri so if wan hav to wake up at 5am to BD..as im leaving at 7pm on 26th...anyway thanks for de info..i will try to bd if got chance *.* wink!

 

[missycandy]

<font color="0000ff">blue turtle, u to balek... egg survive 12-24hrs. sperm cn stay alive for up to 5 days. hee.

jomummy, just hantam! dont waste this chance! BD AJER! lol!</font>

 

[jo3309]

missy, sperm can stay up to 5days? zhun bo? haha..then i no need worry..can bd on 25th night and come back on 30th bd again..hahah..provided my egg is there!

ya i told my gynae im taking the blackmore conceive well..she say this will not help in ovulation...

i forgot to ask then how abt eve primrose oil or bai feng yuan??

 

[blue_turtle7]

missycandy... wahahaha... oppss... seems like different websites give different info.
okok...
so jomummy, just BD... soldiers might just stay alive throughout your trip!

 

[ryan_mummy]

bliss_ling: i also late 7days.. but did blood/urine tests negative.. so did ultrasound.. also no sac.. just have to wait...

 

[jaster150704]

jo's mummy,
really ah!? wahhh.. then i wont bother to pay to get the pills liao! hahaha...

 

[ryan_mummy]

Some fun facts:

male sperm last up to 5days.
female sperm last up to 7days.

M swim faster *reach egg in about 3days
F swim slower *reach egg in about 3days, but male sperm is already in front about to attack the egg once it's released

Egg survives 24-48hours in our bodies. So it's better for sperm to wait for egg than the other way around.

Usually we are fertile 3days before egg is released and 2 days after. So we have approximately 5days of super fertility to play on.

To aid the sperms to reach destination faster, you may choose to orgasm just before ur hb orgasm to enhance the vaginal environment for optimal swimming experience

 

[blue_turtle7]

jomummy: for #1 i also took the blackmore. haven't finish 1 box already dio-ed. think helps to regulate cycle and strengthen the womb lar.

This whole baby making thing is so by luck...
anyone take folic acid all the way? i am doing that now.

 

[airy2310]

misscandy,

so hows ur AF? mine come full force yesterday evening..so i just consider it CD 1, dont bother la..