yea really no time to shit esp if you dont have confinement lady, or mother or MIL at home. even if you have CL, you need to eat all the time, or be busy with the baby. my stubborn lil one is sticky and dont nap for more than 1.5 hours in the beginning, and not more than 20 mins at one stage. then if not you eat, he/she eats, then change diapers at least 5 times a day for the bub's big business, etc etc, so it's also depends on your lil one. I guess I spoilt him by carrying him all the time initially. so he couldn't be away from me even for a quick shower.