DolceVita
are you Aug 09 mummy? your nick looks so familiar, haha.. cuz my #1 is Aug 09 baby so feel that i've met you in that thread before somehow...
wu py
cannot eat sashimi? haha i never stop eating since i was pregnant, guess can eat after confinement right? LOL, i got a box of icecream in fridge also, almost open up last night, LOL..
Priscilla, ak
my boy is about the same, they have the wrong sleep association in this case. meaning they associate patting/rocking/cuddling with sleeping and if we dun do that, they can't sleep on their own..
a bit no choice, that's why pple say carry too much le end up like this lor.. not easy to change their pattern. for #1 somehow we managed to get him sleep on his own when he was about 4 months, so i am still trying for #2, as in just put him in cot when he's sleepy, but most of the time he will fidget a lot and end up crying, so have to carry him up.
the right method is to check and make sure they are not hungry, no wet nappy, burped well, then let them settle in bed for 5-10 mins, if they can sleep, carry up and check and make sure all their needs are satisfied, then put down again let them settle in 5-10 minutes, usually they should be able to sleep after 20 minutes of trying..
but that's just the theory, so far i have not managed to get it work for #2 every time, it works when he's super sleepy..
i am still trying, but my back up plan is to do what we did for #1, till he turns 4 months, can support his neck well and burp on his own, we just leave him in bed, off the light, keep quiet and let him play on his own till he fall asleep.. cuz now it's hard to tell if we burp baby well, sometimes burp already, put down, cry, pick up and immediately big and loud burp..