Jascmy, I like this one:
http://www.chozconfectionery.com/2010/Choz_Home.php
I dun wan to do at mil plc. Well, I already told hubs to skip the celebration party coz I dun wan to do any work.. Even part time maid comes the next day, still hv to do some work ourselves one.. Eg, packing of left over food, wiping the tables or floor for spills, etc. The party is only more for his close relatives mainly.. I hv v few close friends n colleagues I wun be inviting. Most Caterer, need a min head count of 40-50 pp, I dun hv so many guest. Hubs side, only 1 bb n 2 kids, so, the celebration is for adults. Dun really see the need for me to go thru the hassle. As for gifts n angbows, the money spent on the celebration can all be given to the bb in her bank's account. Gifts wise, I bought most things, I dun need more toys or clothes.. Anyway, bb also too young to enjoy or rejoice over the gifts.
I know mil may be upset coz first grand child.. But then again, since no one is helping, why shld I over tired myself? I need to take care of bb leh.. My Hubs is v lazy one..
When I was in my 2nd tri, he organized a BBQ.. Told me he will do all the catering n cleaning, washing n packing of left over food.. End up also I do... I was so tired after that.. Now, bb shower celebration, I hv a new born to take care, will be stressed! Dun wan to quarrel or fight with hubs on this n worse, later post natal blues...
