Caro/BebeYee/Nip1/Pping
Thanks for all your concern [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] Good news is that I am finally discharged from hospital! Relying heavily on oral meds now but better at home than staying in hospital -- not cheap too! Phew! Was telling hubby that this was like a 'test run' for when the twins are born in many ways.. For me to get used to being away from my boy for a few days, for my boy and everyone else also... and cost wise, definitely to be mentally prep!
Life is pretty different aly for me now, been ordered to be on bedrest and no more working.. cannot carry my boy and walk.. have to lie down or sit down most of time even when at home.. And feeling a bit weak cos the meds tend to lower blood pressure and cause heart palpitations so get tired super easily. Even for simple things like showering. But it's all to ensure my little boys stay in my tummy until they are mature enough to meet us in person [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Nip1,
Are u feeling overwhelmed? Hang in there ok? Know it's difficult, cos everything seems urgent and unsolvable but try to think on the bright side of any situation. And keep the lines of communication betweeen u and ur hubby open.
Must rem that ur children need a happy and healthy mummy, that u can only do ur best for urself and everyone else when u are well rested physically n emotionally ok? Anything just vent it out, dont let it fester inside k? U can do it! [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
BebeYee,
How's ur moo moo career? Dont stress abt milk supply k? A little is better than nothing, and will still give ur girls the necessary antibodies needed.. Personally my boy grew up half on formula and he's doing well. So nothing wrong with formula too so just do the best u can [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
And yes, u captured my feelings abt missing my boy so well.. Now every morning my hubby brings him to my MIL plc alone while i stay at home.. Every morning at the gate i ll feel like crying but I know I cant handle him alone at home.. so I just look fwd to when he comes home to give him lots of hugs and kisses. Thk he also sense something is different. Tend to be slightly more clingy, and hugs me like he is afraid he will be carried away by others. Really cause twinges in my heart everytime.. But like my hubby say, must persevere in the ST so tht in 2mths or so, we will have 3 happy and healthy little boys with us.. It's my mantra now..