Aiya, all PILs are like that. My PILs dont stay in singapore, but we visit or they visit often, so like 4-5 times a year for at least 1-2 weeks we will meet. Then in that time they will feed my son all kinds of weird things, like milk (fresh milk) when he was about 6 mths, and my hubby goes mute lor, wont say anything. i got so frustrated i cried and he still so bo chup, say he also drank when younger but never die what.
This is just one example, then when they are here, they dun even let me play with baby. They hog him and when i take him away to feed or put to sleep they will say "your mummy taking u away... u cannot eat with us", etc.
Drives me crazy!!!