Thanks AshMama for update of list. My girl will be my #2 child. Thanks!
Jacqueline, I am advocate of infant being in the car seat since their first ride in our car. In UK, if you do not have a car seat installed, the midwife from the hospital will forbid your baby from checking out of the hospital!! I always think it is wise to spend a little more on a safe seat than to regret later. If you are no consistent in keeping the baby in the car seat, eventually, your baby will not want to sit in the car seat. Like any other parenting, we should be consistent in what we do with the kids so they know what to expect and where the boundaries lies. This is esp if you need to drive the child around alone.
I strongly suggest you do not compromise on your child's safe for a few hundred dollars of savings. It is not worth. Furthermore, the traffic police are pretty stern with the penalties when they catch children unbuckled in the car. My cousin's husband was fined for a child not buckled in the seat and my cousin carrying their baby 2 years ago. This happened not long after my mom begged me to carry my 4 days old boy in my arms as she thought he looked "poor thing", and I explained how important it is to have him in the car seat..
Yes, use the car seat carrier first then change to car seat then the 5-point booster seat. Try to keep the kid in the 5-point harness car seat as long as possible, its for their safety. My son is taller and heavier than average, therefore, by 1 year old, he could sit in the Britax Boulevard. Now at about 2, he is fitting in the Britax Frontier 85 well. So this trip to USA, we are going to bring back one.
His stroller was a travel system, so it comes with a car seat carrier. Your friend is very right, the car seat carrier is great!! I love mine though it can be heavy for me when he is sleeping inside, more so I had a C-section.
gbh, most of my gf bought combi cos the wheels are 360degree spin. But when we went to look, he immediately said no cos the wheels are too small and seemed unstable. I wanted a Peg Perego and it was my gf that said the Zippy is similarly stable and safe w/o having to pay so much. I only paid $850 for mine, but MIL already thought it's expensive because the USA Graco travel systems only cost $450 then. If I was in USA, I could get Graco for a mere $200!!!.. Things are too over priced here.
gbh, I salute you to want so many kids. my gf my age wanted 4 too!! I also salute her. Singapore Govt love you deep deep!!
RE: 2nd hand car seat
Only if the car seat was from a trustd source and that it had never been in an accident before. Likewise (touchwood) if there is accident when there is a car seat in the car, it's best to replace.
I lend my car seat carrier to 2 friends between my #1 and this pregnancy. by the time I deliver, it should be back to me as the baby should be big enough for his own car seat.
CP, I am the impulse buyer at times, but when I have a shopping list, I do better. But for baby, I hope I can resist.. Now that I know it's going to be a girl, I better restrict my feet.
ChanPL. most peopl I know recommend the use of playpen. 1. cooler for Singapore weather; 2. portable and easy carriage in case you intend to put it closer to where you are in the day, or even when need to lug it along during holiday trips 3. safer, because it's netted, the baby's limps won't get caught between the railings like in cot/ cot bed.
In my husband's family, they have a very weird concept that baby should be sleeping in a cot or bed, and must be new (!!!), so when I took a used cot from my neighbor, my MIL wasn't was pleased, she insisted to pay for the cot. so my hubby ended up buyin a crib, a cot bed and a chest of drawers from mothercare and costs as much as $1600!!! then the crib lasted us about 5mths, the cot bed was retired before he turned one, and since then he has been sleeping on the super single mattress on the floor, so that he does not flip flop so much in the night that caused him to bump all 360 degree of the cot. I received a big playpen, just to play and it's also a white elephant. So, in summary, we really do not know what will work for our child, in the path of discovering, we will ended up spending on something not useable for our kid. I just hope my #2 will do better.
One thing I never recommend is Moses basket.
RE: Low Placenta
Usually it will move up by the later stage of preg, if it doesn't then had to do C-section.
RE: Cord blood banking
I am advocate for storing baby's cord blood and I am with Cordlife as well, you can find my note in my other fb page, babiesbreaths.
As we may relocate, therefore the transportation packing for cordlife is better. Secondly, according to surgeons, when cord blood is needed in the surgery, they do no only thaw what is enough, they thawed all!! SO, what Stem cord claims on storing in different vials so that the cord blood can be used in another occasion is not going to happen. I also trust "plastic" bag to "glass vials" that can be broken during tranportation.
Anything I missed? Gtg..