down sydrome test
the percentage varies bw age, the younger u are, the lower the risk. Well, no harm going for the test to give mind some peace. =)
Sex
I still BD like once or twice a week. Didnt BD throughout my 1st pregnency as its our 1st and we were afraid of hurting the bb. HAHA!!! For this one we continue as per normal. Will stop once bum out. Ya, my gynae advise us to do it lesser but did not totally refrain. My mum said BD during pregnancy especially towards last stage affects the cleanliness. The head will be full of sperms and the bb's hair will have clumps of white stuff. Well, dunno a fact or myth but I guess as long as both are comfortable with the idea, its fine.
Hey pepper,
bb spirit is always always around mothers whenever she is pregnant. The younger the child is, the more he can "see" his sibling. Thats a myth la... which is used to explain why some of the elder ones tends to stick to the mother as if they know whats going on. =) Dun lose any patience to the elder one. Just give in to them. Although there are many bad reviews on CC, generally it benefits the child n a larger extend. For eg, the child can learn something which they dun learn at home. Do start early now as it might be more difficult to send him after #2 is born, he might feel hes being sent away due to his younger sibling. My personal views, do consider. =)
Maid issues.
Haiya, maid is always the top 3 pek chek things in my list. She nv fails to get on my nerves de la. Hai... better dun talk about her if not dong my tai qi! Wahahaha
IN LAWS!
Hahaha! This is my top pek chek thing in my list. oh well... my conflicts with her started off with #1's arrival. I got very depressed when she around. hai... very very very sad. Now I am afraid. Was thinking to shift bk to my mum's place for next confinement.
BTW, if any mummies going for holidays with an obvious bum, do remember to get a letter of certificate from gynae. Some countries even like Thailand forbids entry because they are afraid mothers will give birth in their country. Oh well... better play safe in case get stuck at custom. =)