PiPi: i did always go grocery myself with hb or helper. depending on others can vomit blood. CNY food i select cos many ppl eating, so i will be picky for selection. will upload the small feast on the eve to show. lol. When my #2 is only few days old, i already grocery shopping n sending my girl to and from school. cant possibly depend on hb who is working and my girl's school was there like 10 or more bus stops away.
PiPi, hb still flying when i was 32weeks with my #2. i stil go out with my #1 and helper. she will help to assist. at my 7weeks with #3, HB was in SFO and i need to fly BKK. I brought my #1 with me on this trip. Tiring one.
even now.. he is planning to go SFO in march or april. i can still manage without him. so no issue. more impt, i think one needs to be extremely positive. Negative thoughts will worsen the emotions. Seriously given a choice, whose hb wants to leave his newly pregnant wife to be home alone?
PiPi: MOM requires all NEW Employers to go through this test/course. you can take it in person or via online. FRankly, u can do it online, just sit there and answers questions. more like how to treat the maid, how to house them, the wrking hrs and rest hours.... etc. I just happened to read, tt if you are into last mth of pregnancy, they might consider the wavie of the test. but if you hv intention to hire one sooner or later, just go online via MOM website to check it out and take it. print that cert and go to any agency.