cary: nope. first grandchild of the entire clan. DH told her she going to be a grandma. all she said is "orh. good lor." then tats it.. never ask gender, how many weeks, how am i.. she never spoke of it ever since we told her. no tonics no bird nest nothing.. she dont bother then i also dont bother.. my mum's going to take care and she wont get to see her grandchild very often anyway..