MdmKhoo> well it depends on wat u really want in life. my hubby and me being staying apart for more than 2 years. i took 2 years to decide before i finally quit my job, to give up everything in sg (frens/family, my dear dogs, its not easy) and go china to join him coz to me, happiness superceded work. i can find a job back later. but family happiness is different. so it still boils down to wat u really wants. i hv this thinking, when i die, i dun wan to die wif just a job(/career). i wanna hv those happy memories wif me. maybe i think too much. hehehe..i just realised alot of pple doesnt know all these especially in sg. alot of un-married career woman or man, only think of $.