bunny : it's ok! you can tell claire that your primary concern is baby then follow by housework. then tell her what kind of maid that you are looking for. eg, nationality of the maid and whether you want to give her off/no off day.
she'll then select some biodata for you to shortlist. before selecting, do you prefer younger maid or older ones? as for me, i would prefer to look for someone around 30s. Also, look out for those are married with children. Since they are inexperience, @ least they knows how to handle children.
so prepare the question for the maid : you can ask her how to make baby sleeps? if she said sing to baby, then ask her to sing. next asked her if it's raining and baby's crying, would she choose to close the window or carry the baby?
there are some indo maid do handle but don't eat pork.
hope the above helps.