gerry, i agree with sookie that yr #1 is on the period of settling into the reality of the bb's arrival. Even my #1, a super sensible girl(whom even took care of me during my bad morning sickness period) was dragged into that phrase 1mth upon meimei's arrival. That was also why we left the bb at home and brought her out. However, we're not gg to do that much now, so will see how things go but the idea of going back to a school makes her happy, at least for now(luckily we're able to find one near our new home, *phew*)...
U're so lucky, so blessed to hv 2 kids whom hv no problem with bf/bottle feeding and now, a hubby whom supports you in the 'sleeping on their own' training. Mine, haiz, each time I train my girl(#1) to go to bed alone when she was younger, my hubby would sure go spoil it all on those occasions where she had those 'dun want to sleep alone' moments... Then there again, I hv to re-train, arrrrrgggghhh, really felt like kicking his butt now that I'm reminded of those times, hahaha.
pongzai, actually filipino or indonesian maids, they're all about the same. Indonesian ones, some are merely 'pretending' to be 'bodoh', while some really that errm 's-----'. However, if we want one that's less 's-----', then we'd hv to bear with some of their 'act smart' or even 'overboard' requests/actions. Worse thing about hiring a maid in S'pore is that our law doesn't really protect us, the employers, the Singaporeans... ridiculous I find...