Milktea : 看开一点吧... I believe alot of us is same as you... We as a mother, we HAVE TO takecare of our bb 24/7, be it SAHM or FTWM... No choice de... Our hb can choose to go out meet friends, drink drank drunk or worst (like mine) Gamer... To them , they must have this.. Cause is sort of a relieve stress to them... But to us is like, come on! This is also your baby... We tend to feel unfair for us.. We cant choose to go out at night, like girl day out or what.. If we go, either mil or own mum take care of bb.. Than if hb takecare, we also wouldn go out at the ease of our mind... No worries bah.. Emo time is on off will have de.. Cause we mother, our responsible is big mah... Hb can choose not to takecare
Of bb cause tired lah,blah blah.. But we cant
Choose mah... Unless, we throw bb to our parents or in-law lo.. Than if like that , we will scare later no bond with bb etc... So what i can say is.. Emo time is emo time.. Dont let your emo get on top of you... You control your emo-ness and not the other way round.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] after emo, if wanna cry , CRY! After that just go koon and tomorrow will be another day for us... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Valerie : hahaha! Ya lo.. Quarrel damn tiring.. Never spilt out things, our mouth itchy... Jialat lo... But than again.. That's our life.. Nothing can be done, unless our hb can really listen to sorrows,sadness and bu shuang-ness... Lol ! =p