piexie, i'm sharing the same thoughts as you!Whether to be a SAHM, though i'm confident my husband can still bring food home for us, but i'm not sure abt cutting shopping expenses lor. With own income, I can shop with more freedom. hee. I tried being SAHM for a while, after my #1, felt super 'yellowish' lor. Every evening, bring my gal to playground, talk to other mummies, gossip here and there. Typical 'auntie'. Then do housework, wear ugly, no makeup, cos home most time.
Well, re-considering, cos it's 2 children now, maybe a more worthy sacrfice. Indeed a though choice with lots of consideration. Maybe we shld start writing the pros and cons, and begin from there. hee.