aaa- Dun be depressed. No matter boy or ger, as long as the bb is healthy, tt is the most impt. For me, my lttle one dun come easily, went thru alot, so i tell myself, boy or ger, i will treasure him/her. After giving birth this little one next yr, me intend to do IVF again, even if strike same gender/twin, i will still love all my little ones.