yah.. i agree.. actually the terrible 2 stage is coz he can't express his feelings so he get frustrated when we dun understand him..
So what i do is I will help him verbalise his feelings... and when he get frustrated.. i will tell him that it is not going to help to behave like that.. you calm down and tell / show mommy what you want...
I also realised that my son is super super clingy to me... but I will still try not to carry him... my deal with him is.. if want mummy then we hold hand and walk together.. if wan carry.. please find daddy.. so far he seems to get it... so far so good.. but i will still make it a point to hug and kiss him and sing with him every night... so he still gets the same attention.. anyway can treat it as singing for #2 oso mah... kill 2 birds with 1 stone.. haha
So what i do is I will help him verbalise his feelings... and when he get frustrated.. i will tell him that it is not going to help to behave like that.. you calm down and tell / show mommy what you want...
I also realised that my son is super super clingy to me... but I will still try not to carry him... my deal with him is.. if want mummy then we hold hand and walk together.. if wan carry.. please find daddy.. so far he seems to get it... so far so good.. but i will still make it a point to hug and kiss him and sing with him every night... so he still gets the same attention.. anyway can treat it as singing for #2 oso mah... kill 2 birds with 1 stone.. haha