(2010) 2009 TTCers Moving on to 2010... Come on in!
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jandew
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Wow Sun r tall n slim leh....kekeke....
i agree with sunshine. once the baby is too big you might have to do emergency c section. & not only the weight goes to the baby - but to u as well & it will be harder to lose more weight put on.
last 2 months the weight of the child will usually nearly adds 500gm every 2 weeks - so you dont think now beginning 8th mth not yet 2 kg - pin ming eat ar, cos it will become say 2.5kg by middle or 3rd week of 8th mth, then by 9th mth it will be another 500gm - 1 kg possibility!
last 2 months the weight of the child will usually nearly adds 500gm every 2 weeks - so you dont think now beginning 8th mth not yet 2 kg - pin ming eat ar, cos it will become say 2.5kg by middle or 3rd week of 8th mth, then by 9th mth it will be another 500gm - 1 kg possibility!
my case was like elica mum's case i put on 20 kg. BUt i lost it all in 5 mths - thanks to breast feeding as well - so Jan - there was more than health of myself i benefitted from - i mean losing weight was also a health benefit so I threw out the TCM's quote of saying my body's weak should stop bfing.
i was 81 & ended up 101kg. I looked so gross - now look back i feel like i look like a monster! My child was 3.97kg, after delivery i think immediately lost 7-8kg. took 5 mths to lose 12kg.
i tell myself - dont do this again next time limit 12-15 kg max & try to start slimmer - i am around 75 now la.
I am not shy to share la -fat is fat lor -start heavy - ended up bras i had to use upto 5 extensions! - so lechey is one thing but its damaging to your self esteem lor. Got $ buy SG also dont sell my size lor.
I am grateful my hb didnt say anything. He still loved me the same i asked him after delivery even after i went back to pre preg wt - did i look horrible - he said no la not much diff. mayeb that's why i didnt really feel so much of a monster then - i busy & had happy tots anyway about having my new baby.
i was 81 & ended up 101kg. I looked so gross - now look back i feel like i look like a monster! My child was 3.97kg, after delivery i think immediately lost 7-8kg. took 5 mths to lose 12kg.
i tell myself - dont do this again next time limit 12-15 kg max & try to start slimmer - i am around 75 now la.
I am not shy to share la -fat is fat lor -start heavy - ended up bras i had to use upto 5 extensions! - so lechey is one thing but its damaging to your self esteem lor. Got $ buy SG also dont sell my size lor.
I am grateful my hb didnt say anything. He still loved me the same i asked him after delivery even after i went back to pre preg wt - did i look horrible - he said no la not much diff. mayeb that's why i didnt really feel so much of a monster then - i busy & had happy tots anyway about having my new baby.
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jandew
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Oh Ester, how tall are u?
I oso scared to become pui pui, coz later cannot slim down I would flip...muahahaha....
I oso scared to become pui pui, coz later cannot slim down I would flip...muahahaha....
its why i am a bf advocate - womb shrink back faster, you can still eat ice cream ahha! slim down -can wear your pre preg clothes faster (saves $)
actually pple say bf saves $ on milk powder - i beg to differ. successful bfing with ease requires a good breast pump (if u want bfing tips can pm me la i can mentor u) its not cheap it will set u back $400-700 & the chore of pumping? washing & transfering expressed milk to containers freezing dating your stock, etc, learning how long u can keep, thaw - within 1 hr after u warm cannot use back again - alot of things to learn.
But baby less sickly, u less worry & baby grows up healthy (mastercard theme - PRICELESS!) that's i think is the most important thing.
ok having said that there willl be a small % who cannot bf for various reasons - u tried still cannot dont be so hard on yourself - just move forward, its ok.
actually pple say bf saves $ on milk powder - i beg to differ. successful bfing with ease requires a good breast pump (if u want bfing tips can pm me la i can mentor u) its not cheap it will set u back $400-700 & the chore of pumping? washing & transfering expressed milk to containers freezing dating your stock, etc, learning how long u can keep, thaw - within 1 hr after u warm cannot use back again - alot of things to learn.
But baby less sickly, u less worry & baby grows up healthy (mastercard theme - PRICELESS!) that's i think is the most important thing.
ok having said that there willl be a small % who cannot bf for various reasons - u tried still cannot dont be so hard on yourself - just move forward, its ok.
pinkiemummie
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ok ladies i have a piece of good news and bad news to share!!!!
Good News!
I will be attached to a pri sch in China for one month in June!!! Yipee!!!
Bad News!
Must delay TTC till June if i dun get preggie this month..hehe
Good News!
I will be attached to a pri sch in China for one month in June!!! Yipee!!!
Bad News!
Must delay TTC till June if i dun get preggie this month..hehe
sagittaurius
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Esterlah,
ya lor.really heartpain when my boy sick. Today he keep crying and crying
ya lor.really heartpain when my boy sick. Today he keep crying and crying
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jandew
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Oh Pinkie like tt huh...hmmmm....
Why r u so happy to go China? Wic part of China?
Tt u 1 mth dun log in often, we would be so lonely w/o u ard.....Hahaha....
Why r u so happy to go China? Wic part of China?
Tt u 1 mth dun log in often, we would be so lonely w/o u ard.....Hahaha....
sagittaurius
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pinkie,
wah so good go china
wah so good go china
purplelace
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vic ma,
finally i got someone who share my sentiments![IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
i also very pro bf de..actually i wanted to give up on bf during confinement ....too tiring plus milk like always not enf for ah boy...but me very stubborn,..kept latch on stimulate milk..bf til he 14mth....but i also lucky i am sahm lah...if i am working..think i cant do it so long since environment not friendly to pump...if at toilet to pump..i find it ....argh...
BF also help me slim down alot...[IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
finally i got someone who share my sentiments![IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
i also very pro bf de..actually i wanted to give up on bf during confinement ....too tiring plus milk like always not enf for ah boy...but me very stubborn,..kept latch on stimulate milk..bf til he 14mth....but i also lucky i am sahm lah...if i am working..think i cant do it so long since environment not friendly to pump...if at toilet to pump..i find it ....argh...
BF also help me slim down alot...[IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
candice
u see them in pain u also dunno what to do hor? how old is your boy?
purplelace
I was so fat right & had latch problems. finally bot the breast feeding pillow - the most ex one cos the rest - cannot go around my waist! after 1-2 weeks of the pillow - i zai liao. kept it for my SIL who just gave birth in Dec 08. Its aching lor sitting to let the little bugger latch & they really take their own sweet time. SO i gave up - i pump - let my GIAN mum & MIL feed - i rest more instead.
i stopped pumping jun 08 when baby was 12 mths old - i just latched at nite & moring before i go to work. so wt loss stagnated lor since. BUt its time to stop we taking some drastic actions soon.
u see them in pain u also dunno what to do hor? how old is your boy?
purplelace
I was so fat right & had latch problems. finally bot the breast feeding pillow - the most ex one cos the rest - cannot go around my waist! after 1-2 weeks of the pillow - i zai liao. kept it for my SIL who just gave birth in Dec 08. Its aching lor sitting to let the little bugger latch & they really take their own sweet time. SO i gave up - i pump - let my GIAN mum & MIL feed - i rest more instead.
i stopped pumping jun 08 when baby was 12 mths old - i just latched at nite & moring before i go to work. so wt loss stagnated lor since. BUt its time to stop we taking some drastic actions soon.
Sunshine,
U are really tall and slim wor! 10kg is still Ok...easier for u to slim back. If bb is already 2kg+, think its Ok lah...
Girl Mummy,
Hope i will see more red later! Hehehe...then can update the chart liao!
Jandew,
No more already ah? My colleague was asking about it so I tot can help help ask.
Anyone got OPK to spare???
Pinkie,
So will u still come in n disturb us anot?
U are really tall and slim wor! 10kg is still Ok...easier for u to slim back. If bb is already 2kg+, think its Ok lah...
Girl Mummy,
Hope i will see more red later! Hehehe...then can update the chart liao!
Jandew,
No more already ah? My colleague was asking about it so I tot can help help ask.
Anyone got OPK to spare???
Pinkie,
So will u still come in n disturb us anot?
pinkiemummie
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jandew
happy cos its a good opportunity for me to learn from the teachers there and i was choosen among all de teachers and im so honoured. I have been to china for 1 month b4 during NIE days but to beijing...now is to wuxi which is near shanghai
happy cos its a good opportunity for me to learn from the teachers there and i was choosen among all de teachers and im so honoured. I have been to china for 1 month b4 during NIE days but to beijing...now is to wuxi which is near shanghai
purplelace
New Member
pinkie,
aiyo but if u strike this cycle will forgo?
which part of china?beijing?
aiyo but if u strike this cycle will forgo?
which part of china?beijing?
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rugrat
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Wow lao! Stupid auntie visit me already.....i been working so hard and still failed this cycle!
sagittaurius
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Esterlah,
my boy is 13 month.ya lor now what should i do?
my boy is 13 month.ya lor now what should i do?
sagittaurius
Active Member
rugrat,
never mind la.Try and try again sure will have de.
never mind la.Try and try again sure will have de.
girls_mummy
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rugrat: yesh yesh... jia you jia you!!!
Violetta: u need to kit by when?? haha i hope i can pass mine to u...
Violetta: u need to kit by when?? haha i hope i can pass mine to u...
pinkiemummie
New Member
yah if i strike i will go next year den
pinkiemummie
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yah im happy!!! cos i was sent to Japan in 2007 Dec for a symposium also for 8 days and now can go CHINA!!! my favourite country!!! muahahahaha!!!
actually from young i tot i will nvr get to sit plane cos i wun have de money but who noes after i start teaching all the opportunities i get are from my job!!! hehehehe
actually from young i tot i will nvr get to sit plane cos i wun have de money but who noes after i start teaching all the opportunities i get are from my job!!! hehehehe
candice - my friend gave the kids ice cream to sooth the ulcers - cos pain cannot swallow - its abit unorthordox but do everything & anything to help them eat. cold jelly, cold milk, cold things. As long as it sooths the pain & he eats - its good.
if you or dh has asthma case hor - i am not sure if this can be done -maybe u can try not so cold things. else will become cough.
if you or dh has asthma case hor - i am not sure if this can be done -maybe u can try not so cold things. else will become cough.
sagittaurius
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esterlah,
give him cold things at his age will he lau sei or not? Your kid how old le?
give him cold things at his age will he lau sei or not? Your kid how old le?
govt should give us TTCing parents hor 2-3 days off each yr or so to TTC. sometimes very tiring le BD haha! & dunno what time one right u O so should grant grace to us urgent leave -reason - i need to BD my wife hor today O le!haha!
my kid 20 mths she didnt have throat ulcer before - i asked my friends of 2-3 kids each told them your boy's age too -this is what one of them suggested. but not kidding my other friend's pd told her - that time her son maybe 10-12 mths old - said dont fight to give meds - jsut hide in food ice cream also can or jelly the PD herself suggested.
Maybe not 1 big cup of what la - just 1/4 cup there about roughly. try everything bread, porridge if he wants let him take.
my kid 20 mths she didnt have throat ulcer before - i asked my friends of 2-3 kids each told them your boy's age too -this is what one of them suggested. but not kidding my other friend's pd told her - that time her son maybe 10-12 mths old - said dont fight to give meds - jsut hide in food ice cream also can or jelly the PD herself suggested.
Maybe not 1 big cup of what la - just 1/4 cup there about roughly. try everything bread, porridge if he wants let him take.
pinkiemummie
New Member
shan
test!!!
test!!!
sagittaurius
Active Member
esterlah,
me and dh no asthma. Expect my dh sometimes he cough. For me i always signess sometimes
me and dh no asthma. Expect my dh sometimes he cough. For me i always signess sometimes
sagittaurius
Active Member
esterlah,
later i try. But doctor give him antibotics lei can still eat meh? Now he only finish about half of his usual milk intake
later i try. But doctor give him antibotics lei can still eat meh? Now he only finish about half of his usual milk intake
sagittaurius
Active Member
Wisq,
i dun think can suck ice-cube lah i think will choke. Ice cube hard lei
i dun think can suck ice-cube lah i think will choke. Ice cube hard lei
sagittaurius
Active Member
Wisq,
nvr mind la. anyway thanks for your advise.
nvr mind la. anyway thanks for your advise.
sagittaurius
Active Member
ok ladies i offline liao. byebye
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starrz
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i am in CD 28 and yet today have whitish discharge?
v blur and confused...
v blur and confused...
candice
i think half of usual milke is normal as long as he takes something lor. of course meds must continue.
its just these cold things - to help pain relief lor. Just to help he cry less & feel better.
If u buy yogurt there is one small 6 pack one - miamme petite something Yopliat brand ar -that one supposed to be for kids this small la.
LUNAR AGE
how to tell ar? I want to see if my girl conceived accurate or not this excel file.
i think half of usual milke is normal as long as he takes something lor. of course meds must continue.
its just these cold things - to help pain relief lor. Just to help he cry less & feel better.
If u buy yogurt there is one small 6 pack one - miamme petite something Yopliat brand ar -that one supposed to be for kids this small la.
LUNAR AGE
how to tell ar? I want to see if my girl conceived accurate or not this excel file.
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starrz
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feeling depressing these few days... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]
my bd after CNY, so i was 33 yrs old i put 33 & put conception mth Sept - is correct. Girl lor.
http://www.baby2see.com/gender/prediction.html
http://www.baby2see.com/gender/prediction.html