Yeah, keyword is to let go. As the kid grows, the more we hv to learn to let go and the less we will control. Not easy ar.
Comparing my mum n my mil, my mum did a gd job to let go. Mil till now still can't do it. Even what her two sons eat still wanna control. Only make herself tired and unhappy when she lose control. But she still doesn't learn any lesson after so many disappointments. Slowly slowly we hv to learn to relax the rules n let go if it's beyond our control.
Following closely with babycenter, our kids r learning to gain independence, more challenges to come.
Comparing my mum n my mil, my mum did a gd job to let go. Mil till now still can't do it. Even what her two sons eat still wanna control. Only make herself tired and unhappy when she lose control. But she still doesn't learn any lesson after so many disappointments. Slowly slowly we hv to learn to relax the rules n let go if it's beyond our control.
Following closely with babycenter, our kids r learning to gain independence, more challenges to come.