Dear all, sunflower, mvh, jesho, duckling, eeyore, rachel, ah bee and some others i can't rmb..
Thanks for all ur advices. Maybe i'm frustrated due to missing the presence of my fil too that made my mind v easy to get irritated. Really v appreciate all of u whom has tried to persuade me. Shifting is not a solution as baby is also a problem. If i shift out den shifting back will be a problem cuz no ifc, no nanny or maid, so now every decision made is important. Girls, i believe there's a way out and the way is to give and take.
Jesho: ur bb born on same day as mine!