reading all the rants about pil, i too felt the same way. They seem to have similar patterns. Of all things, I feel that MIL wants to have control over the baby, like the baby belongs to her. Want me to apply for passport for him so that she and fil can go holiday with him. We ignore her, and now she kept asking us to go holiday and leave the baby with her.
Keep wanting to bring the baby out on their own, but we told them no car seat very dangerous, so everyday she will bark at us to help her to get a car seat, have been doing that for 3 months, and finally some kaypo gave her a car seat. And she is just waiting for the chance to bring baby out. Keep asking us when we are not free so that she can have the baby to herself. Everyday see baby still not enough, just want us to be out of her way.
The worst is she kept telling the baby to call her mama. And tell baby to call me "mimi". I dont think any grandma here is doing that right?
My son sometimes call out "Ma..." when he is crying, so i guess thats why she wants him to call her first. Screw loose!!