ahNah> yaloh. those Indonesian helpers really live a poor life there. When my current PH helper not having her menstruation for mths, I brought her to see my gynae and chinese sinseh many times. my chinese sinseh also commented, luckily she is fr. PH, if fr. Indonesia, health will be lagi worse.
i heard those who work in Middle East also treated illy. my 1st helper who worked in Saudi for 2 yrs told me her employer once "accidentally" burnt her legs with hot water, then they treated her super nice yet still didn't allow her to call home for 2 years. that's why she chose to work in SG. but again, when she was with me, she behaved more like my employer than my helper. probably coz she was my 1st one i treated her nice like friend. I remember someone here mentioned too treated the helper like friend right? dear, don't repeat my story, you will lose your "power" as what ur hubby said. i sent this helper back to the agent within 10 days.