Understand how depressed some of u mummies feel. for my case, also same.. MIL pops by at least 3-4 times a week, and i am doing confinement at my parent's house, i feel that they shld have the courtesy to call before coming which they dun.
when they come and bb is sleeping in my mum's room, MIL also keep walking in and out of her room.. (as if her own house) like waiting for bb to wake up so she can carry. once, they came at 8pm+. BB sleeping, so they were sitting in my house till 10pm+ and i was so tired i wanna sleep instead of entertaining them. in the end, my mum has to hint to them that we are tired and bb needs to be fed soon. who knows, she doesn't get the hint and said "oh, means after bb feeds she will be awake rite? we wait for her lor.." like one day nv carry her cannot meh? and they not paiseh to disturb us for soo long meh?
now i feel very irritated everytime they pop by, when they come and bb is awake, they will carry her, i will show a black face and hide in my room to cry. just cannot control.. once, my MIL saw me crying and she cried too. she asked me why i am so unhappy, is it i dun like them to keep coming? she said, she is not an unreasonable woman and if anythihng i dun like just tell her.. at this point i dunno wad to say.. i just said i am very tired. cowardly me..
my BB also refuse to sleep at nite. changed her, fed her, burped her, but she only wants to sleep in your arms. put her down on bed, she cries. every nite like that since 1 week+.. i also trying hard to give her BM but my supply so imbalanced, left breast can get 60ml, right breast 20ml or even lesser. initially can get at least 50ml from each. FM she drinks about 80ml but BM she needs more cos she always hungry after 1 hr+ even though she is drinking same amt of expressed milk.
sometimes after feeding, dun want to sleep must suckle then will sleep. very painful for me but i bear with it. end up she drink so much she vomit a bit of milk and dun wanna sleep again. sigh..