jenn, my mum cant take care of babies for long, as in whole day, day in day out.. she didnt even take care of me and my sis.. grandma took care of my sis, nanny took care of me.. moreover we bought our place near in-laws to facilitate her looking after our kids, onli 5min walk away.. i knw my hubby 4-5 yrs then we got married.. last time before i got married my mil not like that one lei.. easy-going and nicer to me.. now after giving her a grandson, duno y i feel she treats me worse then b4 =.=
friends yalo.. sometimes the comments she makes quite hurting.. but i always try nt to show it in front of her.. dun too outright, later hubby in difficult position.. so i always swallow.. then after that when alone with hubby then i complain.. lol
ty, pm me your hp no.? if i dropping by to fill in the form tml i'll call u.. u stay meyer rd rite? no worries i can swing by and pick u.. how long is ur mc? i understand what u mean abt your boss being very caught between u and HR... so who's taking over your work in your absence?
bluey, yes, R is 1st grandchild for both me and hubby's parents.. so he realli a baobei lo.. everyone sayang him so much.. he pull my dad's ear my dad also say nvm nvm let him pull.. but hubby and i will "scold" him, say cannot pull gong gong ear.. somemore R same bday as my mil!! cant believe the coincidence.. she also tiger.. at 12 midnite on her bday my contractions started.. then her whole bday she never go anywhr, was waiting anxiously at hm for my hubby to call them to update on my progress in the labor ward.. same same, i also wan R to be close to MY parents.. but no choice, in-laws are looking aft him, so not very possible.. im nw at the whining, dun-want-to-accept-reality stage.. so, feeling miserable lo.. when R starts to crawl and talk, i tink my heart will break if he pushes me away and say he wans nainai.. i tink this is part of the reason y i wana bf as LONG as possible.. to strengthen the bond so R knows im different from nainai.. haiz.. feels like petty childish emotions here but i cant help it leh.. >.<