Mush : how about using her fingers to hold and eat fingerfood? is she ok with that? May still need some time to coordinate the spoon... My son too.. he's ok with handling big pieces of food and putting into his mouth. I tried with those yoghurt melts, he only succeeded after some time.... but comes another prob... now he thinks anything small can be put into his mouth....
Spoon-wise.. I didn't dare try with porridge cos scared of the mess.. just tried with dry fruits but not yet succeeded as well.... she's not wierd lah... just need time... I think baby needs "conditional learning"... after trying repeatedly or seeing you do it... he/she will want to try it too... be patient ya
Jasmini : It depends wor....
Morning around 10am - full bath with shampoo and shower foam.
Evening around 7pm - bath with this baby nightime bath -- few drops into the bath turb and just bathed him there (very fast/simple nightwash).
But if it's cold weather or no sweat/cool -- we will sometimes just towel-wipe him in the evening with warm water.
Next whole week, I'm gonna be a SAHM too cos my mum is travelling (holiday)... honestly, I'm quite blur one.. and the previous time my mum left me alone with baby, I have a number of friends/relatives calling to check how I was cos they know I sure can't handle...
But tell you something.. when you are left ALONE.. your maternal instincts comes in... you will just try your best to do everything in the best way cos that's the BEST you want your child to have... don't worry too much k!!!!
Don't forget you still have all the mummies here to advise/share your concerns with ALL THE TIME!