(2009/12) December 2009 MTBs <IMG SRC="http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.g

hi all, me gg for induction at tmc later... wish me luck!
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Ling Lee,
I am wearing the milk collection shells as I find breastpad will sometimes rub against my nipples &amp; dun like friction to my already sore nipples. but i dun use the milk that was collected, I throw it away. its juz afew drops only anyway. The collection shells is more cost effective too, can wash but ya, its hard lah, like 2 hard thing in front of u.
 
sharon,
I bought mine at Isetan Scotts, its from Medela. Got holes on top so our nipples can be aired too. Isetan also has washable breastpads, I saw NUK brand have.
 
wow.. gathering huh. count me in too.
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wkdays is fine as i wld be on ML till may.
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baby crying - think the trick is dun carry until they sleep. then when they "wake abit", they wld be startle why they not being carried. put them down when baby abt to close eyes... tis wld be gd esp when they grow up.. so tat they know how to sleep themselves if they wake up in the middle of the nite.

some of the bbies mabe already used to the "carry n sleep". to correct this habit, might be tough. like lileen says, let bb cry or hv to "carry n put down" many times before baby correct the habit.
 
Ya, would love to meet up

Dec 2009 Babies 3rd Month Bash!!

Agenda:
Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!
Let’s mummies/babies to mixed around.
Mummies to share share, babies to play play!!
Mummies to exchange ideas, tips etc.
Maybe also distributing of “goods” purchased during spree ( Special thanks to Roxy, Siri,Sandy etc. The list go on.... who always share with us lobangs)
Dadd(ies) are also welcome to share about Fatherhood !!

Date: End Feb or Early March /TBC ( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each!

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9) seveneleven
 
thanks for organising sharon!!

Dec 2009 Babies 3rd Month Bash!!

Agenda:
Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!
Let’s mummies/babies to mixed around.
Mummies to share share, babies to play play!!
Mummies to exchange ideas, tips etc.
Maybe also distributing of “goods” purchased during spree ( Special thanks to Roxy, Siri,Sandy etc. The list go on.... who always share with us lobangs)
Dadd(ies) are also welcome to share about Fatherhood !!

Date: End Feb or Early March /TBC ( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each!

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
 
sigh.. reali bsi these few days.
bb keep crying when put down.. must carry like the whole day.. sigh..
any mummies experiencing the same..

ya.. those first time mummies reali under lotz of stress... mi was quite depressed for a while.. cuz mil keep asking mi to add fm.. cuz bb like always not full..
then hubby at nite oso neber bother to help to see y bb is crying etc..
will juz cry by myself.. beli sad.. but now i feel better liao.. after telling my hubby off.. and my mil.. i dun care oredi..

hope all mummies r doing fine..
 
lileen - u reali can stand him crying?? sigh.. my bb cry a while will hav no voice liao.. the like beli poor thing..

genesis - mi always tell myself.. if i dun carry him when he is young.. when he is older, i wan to carry him he oso dun wan liao.. =)
 
just to share, went to tmc lc dis noon, she massaged for me n told me those lumps r not blocked ducts but r breast tissue...no wonder i massage till breasts blue black lumps still there, so mummies take note... e lump in ur breast might be tissue n not blocked ducts..n she says musy wear good support bra at home as compared to going braless... if braless, breast will sag down which means all the milk is encouraged to sag down, n if not expressed out, will cause engorgemnt.. so must wear bra at home
 
mtdt, there r 2 types of breast shells.
one type is milk collection shells, no holes.
another is softshells to protect nipples, with holes.
 
MTDT: wont move arnd coz its suppose to wear inside ur bra. The holes is on top only, to air the breast, muz position such that the holes r on top n not below so wont leak..
but now I found a funny way not to wear bra coz with the bra can be abit thick haha. I wear a lyra top or a tight t-shirt den juz put the shells inside. the lycra top will hold the shells in place....
 
Dec 2009 Babies 3rd Month Bash!!

Agenda:
Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!
Let’s mummies/babies to mixed around.
Mummies to share share, babies to play play!!
Mummies to exchange ideas, tips etc.
Maybe also distributing of “goods” purchased during spree ( Special thanks to Roxy, Siri,Sandy etc. The list go on.... who always share with us lobangs)
Dadd(ies) are also welcome to share about Fatherhood !!

Date: End Feb or Early March /TBC ( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each!

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10) Alicia

I vote Sat late morning/afternoon
 
opps.. forgot abt the gathering...

Dec 2009 Babies 3rd Month Bash!!

Agenda:
Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!
Let’s mummies/babies to mixed around.
Mummies to share share, babies to play play!!
Mummies to exchange ideas, tips etc.
Maybe also distributing of “goods” purchased during spree ( Special thanks to Roxy, Siri,Sandy etc. The list go on.... who always share with us lobangs)
Dadd(ies) are also welcome to share about Fatherhood !!

Date: End Feb or Early March /TBC ( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each!

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10) Alicia
11) miumiu
 
<font color="ff0000"> Dear mummies, i will like to see how’s the response for the gathering before we organise so that it will be fair for whichever mummy that provide us with the venue ( Don’t want to tired the mummy if it’s low attendance, as she may have to clean up the house after that!! )Hence please kindly confirmed your attendance, actual date/time to be confirm based on majority’s vote.
Personally have the following suggestion for the program on the day,
1)Start with mummy and baby’s self intro so that we know who is who :p
2)Exchange of tips/pointers to help each other to cope better in our motherhood
3)“mun mun” time! ( each mummy have to bring one dish or else maybe we can come out a list and someone will do the shopping and split the amt after that?)
4)Gift exchange time ( as it’s our bab(ies) 3rd mth bash, i suggested each mummy to get a $20 budget gift to exchange so that all bab(ies) will go home with a small gift?
Welcome mummies to give suggestion and program will then be confirmed soon!!

So far here’s the attendance list, will appreciate mummies who’re keen to add on to the list and give suggestion!!

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: ivy (eyevee)’s place @ TPY ( Many thanks to her to be the first one to volunteer)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount? </font>

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)MTDT
 
<font color="ff0000"> Dear mummies, i will like to see how’s the response for the gathering before we organise so that it will be fair for whichever mummy that provide us with the venue ( Don’t want to tired the mummy if it’s low attendance, as she may have to clean up the house after that!! )Hence please kindly confirmed your attendance, actual date/time to be confirm based on majority’s vote.
Personally have the following suggestion for the program on the day,
1)Start with mummy and baby’s self intro so that we know who is who :p
2)Exchange of tips/pointers to help each other to cope better in our motherhood
3)“mun mun” time! ( each mummy have to bring one dish or else maybe we can come out a list and someone will do the shopping and split the amt after that?)
4)Gift exchange time ( as it’s our bab(ies) 3rd mth bash, i suggested each mummy to get a $20 budget gift to exchange so that all bab(ies) will go home with a small gift?
Welcome mummies to give suggestion and program will then be confirmed soon!!

So far here’s the attendance list, will appreciate mummies who’re keen to add on to the list and give suggestion!!

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: ivy (eyevee)’s place @ TPY ( Many thanks to her to be the first one to volunteer)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount? </font>

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
 
Dear mummies, i will like to see how’s the response for the gathering before we organise so that it will be fair for whichever mummy that provide us with the venue ( Don’t want to tired the mummy if it’s low attendance, as she may have to clean up the house after that!! )Hence please kindly confirmed your attendance, actual date/time to be confirm based on majority’s vote.
Personally have the following suggestion for the program on the day,
1)Start with mummy and baby’s self intro so that we know who is who :p
2)Exchange of tips/pointers to help each other to cope better in our motherhood
3)“mun mun” time! ( each mummy have to bring one dish or else maybe we can come out a list and someone will do the shopping and split the amt after that?)
4)Gift exchange time ( as it’s our bab(ies) 3rd mth bash, i suggested each mummy to get a $20 budget gift to exchange so that all bab(ies) will go home with a small gift?
Welcome mummies to give suggestion and program will then be confirmed soon!!

So far here’s the attendance list, will appreciate mummies who’re keen to add on to the list and give suggestion!!

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount?

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
 
diff bb hv diff character. Some can let them hv the crying method. Some cannot. Guess we hv to understand them 1st. Cry out mtd may not be suitable for all. For my boy cos he very persistent or stubborn. So i hv no choice as soft approach dun wk for him. Very heartache to see my no 1 cry that time. There r times that i cry also. But i no choice already. Even put down go toilet also cannot. No 2 also like that but touchwood not as bad. Which baby dun like to be cuddled? So i let him cry for 2 plus hr till time for next feed then i carry to nurse him loh. At times than cuddle him for a while n put him down. Like wat mtdt says dun carry till sleep. I say like rocking horse like that. Goes up n down.
 
Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount?

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
 
gathering, am ok. Can someone help to put in my name as surfing wif hp. So not able to copy n paste. Dun dare to turn on labtop cos afraid will get stuck wif wk n emails. Down side of using co labtop.
 
<font color="0000ff">Thanks for sharing roxy!
I was also advised by the LC before I was discharged to wear good support bra everywhere I go. Even at home.
She mentioned about breasts sagging if the support is not good.
I hear liao scared ah...

The other day when I brought bb for check up at United Sq, I quickly went Mums n Babes to buy good support nursing bras.
Then I realise it is really different when the support is good.
The bra helps to lift up my breasts and can support them really well.

So mummies, do try to wear bra at home as well
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Hmm...I sound like i'm selling bras...haha
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Lileen, I help you.
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Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount?

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
14) Lileen
 
arisz - haha... ya.. u can sure make a good bra seller!! ya.. now breasts so heavy.. dun wear bra like dangling and painful lo..

post on behalf of Lileen:

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount?

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
14) Lileen
 
Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount?

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13)arisz
14)weiting
 
hello all... my hubby say our house not possible -.- he say baby room CMI cos too small. but will be joining u guys lah.

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount? (voting bring 1 dish each, arbo count $ very mafan)

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
14) Lileen
15) eyevee
 
hello all... my hubby say our house not possible -.- he say baby room CMI cos too small. but will be joining u guys lah.

Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Early March /TBC
( hence please kindly vote for your convenient day/time, eg: Weekday/weekends/ Morning/Afternoon/Evening)

Venue: Ivy (eyevee)'s place @ TPY
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu ( i will book the function room)
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)
Food: Mummies can bring/buy one dish each or split amount? (voting bring 1 dish each, arbo count $ very mafan)

Attendance list:
1)Sh@r()n-Sh@ine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
14) Lileen
15) eyevee
16) Anny Chionh

Me vote for weekend afternoon so morning have time to prepare baby and childern ya ;)
 
Count me in for the 3rd mth bash too.. Am using Hp to reply, so can someone help to put my name in the list too? Thanks!

Btw, my fever subsided le.. Oso dunno way causes it.. But I guess something to do with my breasts.. Cos the temperature will drop when I express my milk.. Or cld I be panadol at work? Hmm..

Oh yah, have a smooth delivery shokel!
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Seems like the milk collection shell is a gd replacement for wearing breast pads at home.. Will look out for it after I'm discharge from confinement this wkend!
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Arisz, how u determine watz a gd support nursing bra? Doesn't have to be wired right? I bought a few wired nursing bras, but scared wear Liao will cause blocked ducts.. So dare not wear.. Had been surviving on non-wired nursing bras, but dunno how then consider gd support..

Regarding bb wanna carry, mine oso like tt.. Hard for me to adopt the leave him crying method, since I'm staying with my in laws.. N I tried the put him down when he's almost asleep, but he will cry again then have to calm him down.. My mil had been carrying him n putting him down when he's in deep sleep.. Was thinking next time I jialet Liao, bb will always wanna be carried..
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Great we have good response for the bash! Think willgo ahead to organise!! So now I need more support on the venue!! I personally like the idea of holding at one of the mummy's house- easier for mummies who're total bf and babies can have their " chit chat" session on those playmat! Capacity wise must be be able to occupy ard 20 mummies, 20 babies and some daddies!!
Most likely event will hold on a Saturday afternoon so that Daddies can be present too to help and share!!!
Also need vote on whether mummies will like to bring food or opt for catering!!
 
<font color="ff0000">Dec 2009 Babies- 3rd Month Bash!!

Celebrating Motherhood &amp; Babies Pre/Post 3rd Month!!

Date: Either 6th or 13th March saturday afternoon

Venue:
Calamari's place @ Clementi
Miumiu's place @ tanjong rhu
( we welcome more and shall vote to decide on the confirmed venue)

Food: Mummies bring 1 dish each

Attendance list:
1)Shar()n Shaine
2)genesis28
3)Calamari
4)Hemmie
5)Tris
6)hweiz
7)mushloom
8)Ling Lee
9)roxy
10)Alicia
11)miumiu
12)MTDT
13) arisz
14) Lileen
15) eyevee
16) Anny Chionh
17) WeiTing
18) Cayenne</font>
 
jus watched avatar 3d but me not feeling gd now. feel giddy n have the feeling to puke after the movie n i puke the moment i reach hm... haiz... now still pumping, after pumping my gal is abt to wake up for her milk liao
 
Cry out mtd-personally I never use as bu she de let bb cry too long. Haha... And maybe becos I latch direct, many times bb easy to sooth.but I still make sure he is not carried/nurse to sleep. Eyes still open when I put him back in cot. Even in cot, I also dun pat him etc.. And when carry, I dun rock/walk abt. Just carry and cuddle...
Like wat lileen says.. U see which mtd suits u and bb bah.
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Gathering- my no1 kid thread also hv freq gatherings. So we rotate amg mommies homes. All hv chance... :p
Sugguest-
1) Food to be potluck. Tis save the trouble of collecting money and sometimes, sure hv last min never turn up moms. The most is once date confirm, mums tat indicate coming can list down wat food they r bringing to avoid duplication.
2) Gift exchange is something new to me for gathering, haha no objections lah
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3) We can hv such gathering regularly... For my no1, we hv it almost every other mth. Haha run out of new mummies plc to go.
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Quite a few moms here are non 1st time moms right? Also gd, then hv a older siblings gp to entertain the gor gors and jie jies. Haha
 


Btw another sugguestions..
Later for gathering, can dun need to be always at someone plc.. We can organise trial classes together at some plces... It's fun! We did this for no1... Been to many trials- bbies hv fun and mummies learn some tricks to play with bb from the trials
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But for my no2 bb- not sure I hv how much time for him.. Sad huh. As wld need to make sure timing dun clash with no1 enrichment class time :p

For mums with older kids, do u enroll ur kids to any classes? Or am I the only KS mom here? Haha
 

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