(2009/09) September 2009 MTBs

babymallonline

no one wants to get anything? i wanna buy some t-shirts for sam, but think make up to 200usd can save more $$ right? pm me if anyone wants to share shipping k?
 


<font color="aa00aa">shelled</font>
我是嫁出去leh.... my irritating fil so old fashion &amp; F up... you think i can permanently shift here? That time confinement 1mth he already don't let me shift loh... i purposely shift back last min so he cant do much!! Haaahaha....... i hate to see him, i even hate to hear his voice!

<font color="aa00aa">jul</font>
So fast take pnemococal jab liao?????????

Reason is: They want to sleep at 1030pm-11pm. So they want to hug him carry him play with him before they sleep. So when return to me, 11+...i feed finish make him zzz, 12+, i bathe 12+ 1+ AM!!!
 
princessxiaomei> keke. it's a good idea to let ur hubby know tat de later u move out, de later u start wk. so u can actually move out sonner. cos i can really understand how much u wish to move out. hehe. u r like living with de evil fil =x sorry if i sounded rude, but i've heard so much abt ur experiences with ur ils. juz feel dat u deserve a better treatment. cheers. soon all will get better
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let's juz wait for de arrival of tat day

shelled> yeah lo. now tat i m back at wk, i tot wanna let my boy sleep thru. so i dreamfeed him, since able to give him more at 1230-1am. but who knows i need wake up to pump instead of latch. so much more tiring. hais. but since sleep routine have been established, i dun wanna change it too. sorry ah. juz realise i have not trf de funds to u n i have prob with dbs website now. -_-

waiwai> ahha. same la. me oso mensus juz over 1wk, den sun spotting again. den suddenly no more again. mensus oso went mad -_-

connie> slowly can increase till 5-6hrs no pump. i even tried 9hrs =p but must train slowly. drag an hour by de day. but to prevent supply from dropping, i go by 50ml per hr policy. so if i nv pump for 9hrs, i expect to pump 450ml n so on =p

sandwich> wow. seems dangerous to let #1 n #2 sleep together?
 
<font color="aa00aa">michelle</font>
Initially they force me to work in jan2010. Then i knew my hb sure drag shift in date.. so now i keep emphasize that i will start work after shifting + settle down at new place. Too much transition now... my baby totally cannot set bedtime routine lor! So the later we shift in, the longer it takes fr me to get a job.. the longer i can help in financial lor.. so up to him to choose! hahahaa... i should start to care and think fr myself liao... cannot tink for him le.. cos he never tink fr me at all when comes to his stupid F family.... esp the mad man! No need to say sorry cos everyone who knows how much i tolerate them since i pregnant will know how much i suffer and endure liao... people who know me longer will even know how he react even before i had my customary etc...
 
princess

huh? wanna play with grandson, wanna sleep early? win liao lor.

but it will reallybe better once u shift out. i stayed with my ils for 3 mths after bb was born. super missed my own home, my own bed, being able to bathe long long, do things the way i want to, set my own routine for bb..

my ils are coubted as quite gd liao.. got help with bb, cook for me etc.. only miss my home comfort coz there no bed to sleep n sometimes wanna do things with bb my own way. can't imagine what i must be like for u.
 
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*yawns* Today bb buey tahan, woke up 5.50am for feed. No need pump liao!
Now it's my period cramps keeping me up. Waiting for 7am then can go eat some hot hot bak kut teh to ease the stupid cramps.


<font color="ff3399">princessxiaomei</font>
I kowtow you for tahan-ing your FIL for so long. If it's me I throw rotten eggs long ago liao. Now see your hubs will cooperate with you or not lor.
Hope you can fasterly move out and start anew. But I think in a way... your FIL will never stop his 鸟话 one lor. Just that next time you kenna less only.
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Ptincessxiaomei
Staying with ILs is never easy. You stay with yours, but mine stay with me. as in they're staying in my house. I wanna move also cannot...sigh
I don't know about your character, but for me, I keep ren ren ren until buay tahan I will flare up directly at my ILs. I ren until a point where I figure it's better for me not to give them face, then to make myself upset..heh
And i threaten to move back my mom's home with baby, don't let them see at all, and i actually did that once for 2 weeks. after that, they guai guai listen to me with regards to baby liao
of coz nothing can be perfect. i still rather they don't stay with me
 
babymallonline

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If anyone wants anything, just PM me with the details below by 2moro k? I'm getting 20% discount code. The t-shirts are sooo cheap. Getting some for sam coz i'm worried he'll pluck off his tops' buttons n swallow them!

Real name (Nick):
Email:
Hp:

Item #1
URL:
Item Name:
Size:
Colour:
Size if OOS / Drop:
Colour if OOS / Drop:
Qty:
Price in USD:

Total Qty:
Total USD =
Total SGD = USD X 1.5 = SGD

I'll use the 20% to offset the shipping first and adjust the actual credit card exchange rate and balance later k?
 
princess>

hahaha...jus read ur msg...i had the same thing when i have #1..MIL n hubby keep asking me to give her formula cos they see me so tired and say no milk...until i so fed up and tell my hubby...i know u all concern abt me..but i still can manage..if both of you dun support me BF i am fine with it...all i need is both u n ur mum jus shut up! dont keep asking me to give up!!!from tat time they really din say anything...haha..know how u feel...sometime very fed up w/hubby always stand at ILS side..but to make us feel better..jus take it tat this is a gd point of them for being so "xiao shun"..if you dare next time when is time to feed baby and he is crying jus carry him and say time for feeding...dun bother abt them...very poor thing for baby to cry like tat!
 
~princessxiaomei~
HUGS!!! I can understand how you feel, am living with my mil. It's not easy but the good thing is you will be moving out soon, my mil stays with us, so i don't really have a choice. Jia you Jia you!!

On some aspects, my mil &amp; ur fil can shake hands &amp; be good frens.
My milk supply can't build up from the beginning cos my mil say latch on too much will cause baby to have lung damage. As first time parents, we oso dunno anything, hubby listen to mil and tell me to give FM.... also panic that bb keep crying. The most IRONIC part is mil's 2 daughters are on TBF and she went to help them look after their babies previously loh!
Then when i decided to keep latching baby on, mil will say, why dun you give FM?!?! make me &amp; my hubby quarrel many times during my confinement, that was one of my most depressing times after delivery.

I will always rmb tat time when she forced me to bathe bb when it's raining and keep saying baby not scared of cold. all stupid crap. Whenever she tell me need to let bb wear more clothes when weather is cold, etc, i will suan her in my heart, "didn't u say bb not scared of cold meh?"

Not to mention, sometimes after latch on, i heat up some EBM for him in case he's still hungry. Then my bb doesn't want to drink. So i don't feed him. My Mil will force my bb to drink &amp; keep saying how can you dun drink milk? blah blah.
There was once she oso force FM on my baby when he can't finish and then my baby vomitted milk on her. Guess what she say, must be he never poo for days so his stomach not so good.. can't finish milk. Stupid rite! tell her dun force already she dun listen.
Then my mil can complain abt her daughter forcing milk on her baby. The kettle calling the pot black loh!

~Kris13~
admire your "courage" to move back home like that leh. If i do that, my hubby will be more angry than me rather than anything.. cos if he has to go my parents' hse to fetch me.. is like he got no "face". So.... what i did is i just tell my hubby i gg to my parents' hse to stay (when everything is going on fine, no quarrels or unhappiness). So when i really buay tahan mil, i just bring bb over to parents' place and will not cause too much "misunderstanding".
Sometimes my mil pissed me off and the next day i bring bb out.... hahaha.
 
melissa

Not too bad
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I put sam on it for tummy time. At least got pictures for him to see, else he will gua gua jiao again

pam

Yeah hor.. alamak nvr tot of starting a thread in the spree section.
 
Shelled,

I don mind sleeping with 2 bb provided they are safe with me in 1 bed. HAHA
My huby only back over weekend so if I don sleep with my boy, I will be sleeping alone.

Have a feel that I not close to my gal lor. When I carry her, a bit of stranger feeling. Maybe this is y post depression is so common for S'porens.

Jul,
After counting the milk bag, wat do u plan to do wif them? When are u gg to start feeding them to ur bb since they cannot kept for long? I'm gg to start mixing old wif new one early next month since my oldest pack is stored in end Sep.
 
<font color="aa00aa">melissa</font>
I wonder where all these old folks are from which planet!

I have been latching my baby all the way... PD also never says he's under nourishment! Who is he to determined that right! I simply HATE his voice and really dislike staying with them. When i was pregnant, they just bochup me. Whether i have breakfast or lunch at their house, also hack care. So end up i only have dinner at my mum's place every weekday. One meal a day loh!! And when i deliver liao... come out a lot of pattern! Even more pattern! Only use mouth to talk... totally don't know how to look after kids one lor.. only SEE SEE LOOK LOOK PLAY and COMMENT!!!!!!!!!! Comment RUBBISH!

I have been quarrelling with hb eversince i deliver. I am very tired and sick of it. I really give up hope liao. ONe day ok one day quarrel. One moment ok another moment fight. I'm really sian liao le... damn gek sim! I'm really glad my keys are somewhere waiting to handover to HDB liao le... or else i think my marriage will end up in a mess......

Another thing is, he don't let me buy clothes for my baby! HE say no need buy so many clothes! Problem is i never really buy... and many people bought for him.. then he scold me say don't crap... why so many people buy for him..... everything also scold... kpkb all the way...! I cry until my tears dry.... tired of crying already!

We're also consider half their children right.... but they still don't treat us like their own... i'm just like a child-bearing machine to them!

<font color="aa00aa">shanice</font>
Many times it happen already. It's almost every night! That's why now i avoid going home before that time. I got so pissed. I deprive them of time to see my baby... because they are way too much! I don't care if he's their grandson cos he is my SON! I'm the biggest! Even my hb will have no say because he HARDLY look after him! I was so mad already!

<font color="aa00aa">kris</font>
I am very patient however i have temper also. They went overboard liao le.. i had enough. I really tolerate for YEARS!!!!!!!! I have YET to SHOUT at the top of my voice at their house. I have YET to SCOLD them despite how they treat me. I don't want them to say me ill-brat or what... so i don't want scold.... all i do is AVOID and bring baby back to my mum's place!!!!The more they make me mad, the more i don't let them see or touch my baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They do 1 i do 2. In fact i plan my things very well. I know my flat is coming somewhere this timing.. and that time i plan to have customary at end 2008 so by the time i have a baby will be end 2009.. and soon i will be out of their monster place! Let them see baby occassionally when in the same monster house.. but once i shift out.. i will be very busy so not much time... hahaha... i sound evil right.. but they are more evil..... i can sacrifice but see i want or not!!!!!!!!!!! For them, i will NOT!

<font color="aa00aa">shelled</font>
Hahahaha yah.. he will never stop... but at least i hear lesser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wahahahahaha..... ytd my sumo woke me 5.30am too!! i want my keys i want my keys! i call hdb every week loh..... they damn slowwwwww

<font color="aa00aa">jul</font>
They never cook for me, never buy food for me. Always act blur when helping us financially.. my mum dad sisters have been helping me 1yr plus le.... fil sil sibei cat... i think they eat cat food one.... fil even thought i on leave for 1yr plus instead of jobless!!!!!!!!!!! can't be right!!!!!! act blur mah......and everything want my hb pay....say want train him! rubbishhhhhhhh
 
connie

actually i also haven't tot abt it. i was just so excited that i finally have some to store - so i just freezed, freezed n freezed. now that u mention it, i guess i gotta start using them hor?

hmm.. maybe i'll start mixing them with fresh ebm from jan. my oldest pack is early nov, but i dun have proper freezer so maybe just keep 2 mths?
 
princess

oh yeah, was it u who mentioned b4 that ur mil asked u to eat leftover duck rice??? nvm, breath n breathe..

must stay positive n think good tots. dun get urself stressed n no pt being angry since they're so one kind. u must stay happy then can take gd care of bb n maintain bm supply.

when u move out, u can do whatever u want liao.
 
<font color="aa00aa">jul</font>
Hahaha... yeah.. you still remember har! Yes, leftover duck rice 的 rice 没有鸭肉!

That time i slip and fell in the toilet right, fil scold me also.... -.-" SIGH. I seriously dont know what i am to them! Worse than MAID.

Ehhh i cannot see the babymallonline spree leh... how much is it ah? IS it expensive?
 
Jul> u got buy bbmall clothes before ma? Personally I feel a bit poor quality leh.. Thin thin filmsy leh..
Why dun want buy old navy? Hee..

But bbmall now got sales ma? Sales then more wuhua..
 
rach

Yeah I bot b4. I found quite gd leh. And thin, even better, coz weather so hot, dun want Sam to get heatstroke, esp with CNY weather n mid-yr weather coming up.

Got 20% lor.

Avtually I bot a baby top from Old Navy b4. I found the quality very pasar malam leh. Maybe it depends on each batch bah?
 
Jul> oh okie. Think depends buy wat also..
But so far my old navy kidswear all not bad.. But my adult wear then quite thin n filmsy.. Haha.. But like u said, good for our weather n wear at home, liang liang..

I got the 5pc sleeveless romper frm bbmall then quite disappointed.. Hah..

As long u know the quality can liaoz.. :p
 
<font color="#6600ff">Jul</font>

You never warn me your HB coming to get Sophie >.<

Comparison for Old Navy and Babymall. I bought 2 nursing tops for myself from ON and the material was really stretchy and kind flimsy and thin. It was so baggy that Kairi's foot was able to get caught in the front of my top. Thank god she didn't lift my shirt up. I bought a jacket and a pair of boots from ON for Kairi but yet to use them. They're meant for next year. I've read some reviews from ON on some of their products. Some look good but aren't practical...

Babymall so far I have no complaints. "Dirt cheap" and good. They don't look cheapo to me... ^^
 
Melissa
I lucky I got a doting hubby who's mostly on my side. So that time I move back home, I made him move with me too..heh..but of coz on condition that I wasn't going to stay for too long lah. Once we felt that ILs have learnt their lesson then we move back home liao.
I guess having a supportive hubby is really very impt when we have to stay with ILs.
 
princessxiaomei
No lah, not evil at all. I secretly curse my FIL almost everyday..heh
In fact, if i were you, after shifting out, i would probably only bring baby to visit max once a month. Best is only once every 2 months. Even better is only during special occassions like birthdays..haha
 
<font face="tahoma"><font color="Ff3399">Pamelia</font>
ON nursing wear is mostly (if not all) MATERNITY nursing wear. That's why baggy mah.
You have to go for regular nursing wear cos you're so skinny, don't even look like you just had a baby lah!
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<font color="#6600ff">Shelled</font>

I wanted the normal tanks... But they were OOS!!! Next batch... I'll get it... Cheaper than Glamourmom.
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<font color="dc143c">bbq</font>
YES!! next batch i'm bringing in!!!! wait for me okay!!!!! :p
Already placed order this afternoon.. will shipped out this sunday... so will arrive 2nd Jan hopefully...
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Carters bibs.. :p
 
~Jul~
ya... my mil say will affect baby's lungs wor.... all she talk one, as if she know alot. in fact she knows nothing. in the end hubby tell me say just bcos i want TBF i cannot use baby as guinea pig and keep latching bb. SIGH*100

until i went to ask PD in front of hubby and let him hear for himself that PD say will not affect.
Now he let me do what i want... he's too gan chiong over bb.


~princessxiaomei~
ya i know what u mean... In laws will definitely affect couple's marriage. sometimes my mil like to say things w/o thinking and then cause us to quarrel.
my mil everyday wake up only wait to play with my son cos she dun hv other things to do except grocery shopping, cooking and other household chores. Sometimes oso want to snatch bottle feeding from me.

gd that u staying at ur parents' place, you will be moving out soon &amp; can have a happy life after that. : )
For me... i still hv to endure loh. : (


~kris~
*envy* yes.. having supportive hubby is v impt.

~Rach~
got "waterproof" big bibs? those can clean off easily with wet wipes when bb dirty the bib?
I saw one of my fren using &amp; find it v useful.. just wipe the cereal/ porridge off the bib &amp; will not dirty bb's clothes.
 
melissa

well at least ur hubs believes the pd. if he rather believe his mum despite what pd advises, then u'll even more sian lor
 
babymallonline> erms. haven ordered anything from there. any good recommendations?

connie> i oredi start using all those milkbags i stored in early sep. i trying to clear them within 3mths. although i think can last 4mths?

jul> hehe. personally i like jshopper quality =p but now deir materials thicker. cos now winter season. but i buy some of de older summer style ones. not too thick, good for sgp weather n very good material.
 
Michelle,
Oh,thats good. I bought a 2nd hand freezer to store so that I can keep them longer.
Bought a new fridge, can store them in ther once the freezer full. Now the freezer quite pack with the BM + the fridge to go and ice-cream.

I gal is down with a cough now. No appetite to drink, doesn;t want to suck. End up my maid with my boy teats to feed her. later calling PD why see her liao, bb dont want to drink milk.
 
anyone knows where I can get a cheaper ear theremometer?

Ordered from spree, but super unlucky, my batch got problem so getting refund... hubby pissed off with me cos waited very long liao...
 
--Paige--

I read that you thought of getting a manual pump? I'm currently using Avent manual pump, its good can clear my breasts, suction is just nice.

--Connie--

Hope your girl is feeling better now.

--Hollow--

Guardian pharmacy is selling the Braun ear thermometer at $125 on offer, usual price $140+.
 


<font color="0000ff">Kris &amp; Bernice</font> thanks for your input on avent manual pumps...was wondering whether they fit medela bottles because i have a LOT of those medela storage bottles!! DUnno whether have Avent to Medela converter or not...

*sigh* I just bought 10 bibs from BP spree
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Next time i better ask Rach first...
 

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