<font color="ff6000">babiesmeme</font>
I'll be going to TMC again. Not sure if it'll be the same, but TMC takes deposit via Cash/NETS/Credit Card. Don't think they take cheques.
<font color="ff6000">jenifur</font>
My TMC experience was exactly the same to yours as well! I found my stay there quite enjoyable and supportive. The staff all very nice and helpful. And even though I had C-sec side effects (pain/dizziness/nausea), the nurses INSIST for me to BF Joshua even though I tell them I'm damn tired. They would say things like:
"You want TBF, then you must wake up and feed baby every 3 hours. Come come, I'll help you hold the baby. Or you want to feed lying on your side?"
The only thing I didn't like was how I would get hungry in the middle of the night, and there's nothing to eat! They only give me small cup of milo, which is so not enough. This time round I will pack snacks like biscuits & cereal bars into my hospital bag!
Yay! No more tacky neon green diaper bag! My hubs threw that away faster than you could say "ugly".
I also hope I get "loyalty hamper" like you!!
<font color="ff6000">Jess / Re: blubberish's TMC experience </font>
If you realise, blubberish mentioned a few times in her story that she
"didn't know any better" and therefore she never persist about nurse bringing baby to her, and she was
groggy and agreed for her bb to be fed glucose water. What I feel is that she is trying to push blame to TMC nurses for her inability to BF successfully. And my only question is:
Where was her DH during all this?! How come he didn't help her in bringing bb over to ward to BF? How come he never tell nurse not to give glucose water?
If ANY mom would like to BF properly, then she has GOT to KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING and agreeing to. This blubberish didn't ask questions when bb was taken away, she agreed for bb to be given glucose water, then now she complain?! In any case, I didn't latch #1 on until <u>4 hours after his birth</u>. Because I C-sec and unable to latch him on immediately as I must be sewn up mah. You don't see me have BF issue say cannot latch on or anything. This mom is like finding excuses to justify herself lor. Then nurse ask her she want nipple shield or not, she say
"didn't know what that was". Really very...
Same as jenifur, my TMC experience was NOTHING like blubberish's. So I truly believe blubberish had made some silly mistakes somewhere.
If you want CHOP GUARANTEE TBF BB, then you should have told your gynae during your checkups, and not only after you admit to delivery. My emergency admission form already written BIG BIG there:
TBF ONLY. So as and when I go into labour and use that admission form, no way they will screw up my TBF preference lor. But even then, I will still be mindful to ask nurses to bring BB to me for BF. When I had #1, everytime nurse come into my room I will ask her: "Is it time for BF yet?" so that they get reminded that my bb is TBF.
Sorry that I feel very strongly towards blubberish's story. I just feel that she didn't know what she was doing, and her DH was not mentioned in the story at all, and now she want to blame TMC/Nurses for her BF failure. You cannot blame other ppl for your own ignorance/failure lor.