Hi mummies, Thanks.. I'm feeling better now. Hubz finally came to talk to me this morning before going to work...
He still thought that we are back to normal already so I asked him what did he do to rectify problem and he said "I thought u okie already"... So I asked him again what he did to solve our problem... he couldn't answer..
Then he promise to be nice and we need to talk every night... So I told him half of the problems that we had (cannot say all cause not enough time... that's how much problems we had.. lol) and he agreed to put in more effort.
He also identified that our problems was that after my delivery, we didn't have much time to talk and I explained cause I was in the room most of the time and he dreaded to come into the room else he would have to help out with baby.... initially he denied then after that say that he will try..
Told him a lot of things that he did not do in the past and I think he did wake up a little. He say that he will try and then I can review him every 2 days to remind him what he did right or wrong... So I suggested that we write for each other 10 "Do Nots" and 10 good things that we did for each other... but then I realised for the past 4 years plus since my girl was born, he doesn't have much good points left already...
so I told him that I will start with 3 first cause all the good points he used to have last time like : responsible father, family man, sweet hubby, all kind of disappear over these 5 years and he think back also accepted that.
I told him I'm willing to try once more and believe him and work together with him but this promise cannot last for just a couple of months. Cause normally his "normal" apology lasts for 2 days, his "big" talk lasts for say 2 months... so he say we review each other every 2 days then agreed that he will come in to the room to look for me to have talks when he comes home.
I guess there is a lot of improvements now and I really hope it stays this way... cause I can't be the only person whom does everything at home...
Special Thanks to Rach, Angela and Gerald whom have really given lots of advices and support.
Corinne, yes I bought and am still buying papaya fish soup from TMC. Its about $6.50 or $6.80 per bowl and they don't do delivery. You need to self collect from them.
Just a tip, when you order the soup if you want to keep for other days, ask for frozen without the papaya. Cause sometimes if they put the unripe papaya in the container and freeze it, it will change the taste of the soup.
For Fenugreek, pay me only after the goods arrive at my place so can pay shipping and bottle costs together
if i wait somemore my shoulders will die on me... i have been carrying baby with my hands when i go out... geisha trim is nice too!
