Flower:
I'm so sorry to read about your experiences and can feel how upset you are. If this is the case then I would also agree with the rest of the mummies here that you should find another gynae that suits you. It is most important that you are comfortable.
I'm also with Dr Lisa Chin and am also a 1st time mummy.
I must say though that my experiences with her have been very different. I have found her very patient and someone who gives very pragmatic advice, straight to the point, which we like. There was once when my hubby couldn't join me, so my mum came along. Even my mum (who is a trained nurse and is very particular) was impressed with her.
I had a long discussion with Dr Chin about hiring a doula (which I considered at one point), and she took time to explain her views to me, which I found immensely useful.
Each time I go to see her, she will ask me if I have any questions, and I would have a ready list of questions to ask her, which she will always answer satisfactorily. I appreciated that because I usually have to go during the peak hours on Saturdays, but still she makes time to answer my questions.
I had severe morning sickness up to my 16th week too. There was one visit where the moment I stepped into her clinic, she looked at me and said "Poor Girl" when she saw how green I looked. I felt like she understood!
The "iron pills" that we are given also contain other vitamins like folic acid etc. It is not the usual all-in-one Multivit, but it contains a number of things that are useful specifically for pregnant women. Fish Oil/DHA is usually a seperate cost.
What I would agree with you though is that the scans I have received aren't as clear as I would like them to be. However, you should check your CD because for me, at first I also thought it was very short - but later I realised there were a couple of short video files that I didn't notice earlier, not just one. I'm quite happy with what I have.
Just sharing my experiences, and I really wish you all the best and hope you find someone you're comfortable with!