yah lor kiki i also think by then diff challenge liao, will be very tough also, but they feel that by then baby can talk and walk so more interestig to play with, haiz.. how to let them take care? they carry my boy and say:"good boy we go gai gai buy candy for you okie??" gosh i was like, huh? can you buy something better for him or not sia.. i nvr want to introduce those unhealthy stuff to him lor.. then my boy cry they will say "why huh why huh, want milk milk? want to sleep?" when they saw him just wake up from his nap and we told them he just had his milk 2 hours ago... Again think they meant i never bring baby for them to "play with" lah, not "look after", look after they sure cannot tahan liao, like you said just give them 1 day they cannot take it already..
but my mil insists that looking after baby very easy de, leave him there let him play can liao.. and she say okay mah give him milk, drink liao will sleep so easy, but in fact daytime my boy sleeps for only 3-4 hours, where got easy de..