tas, dh pay for his side, my bro pay for my mum and himself. Anyway, everytime, my mil will tell my dh, buy you dinner at Bali-thai, end up always dh paying for the whole meal.
Jul, we are outstationed here so need special visa. Like in Japan, we also need special visa and also need to get their temporary resident pass with photos on it somemore. The specila visa takes 8-12 weeks to get it.