<font color="0000ff">yen2008</font>, haahaa, I was telling dh, I am wearing so many hats at home. Domestic helpers, the cook, the nurse, the doctor, etc when we were away from home coz I have to take care of two boys - one being over 30s and one going on to 6 soon.
And over at my ils now, they saw that I am coaching and homeschooling my boy even in my confinement and taking care of my newborn fulltime - cleaning, feeding, talking and trying to play with Ray. Even at night, I am handling my newborn alone coz dh is rushing his analysis and rushing his report and sometimes he is home late so if mil still wants to think that I am having a taitai's life then she can fly over to stay with us at Sydney. Now with the chinese family murdered in Sydney, she is having double thought now coz the children attending Kai's school and also the family staying about 10minutes drive from our place.
<font color="0000ff">mashy</font>, I told dh, money is not everything and we came into the world with nothing and we will leave the world with nothing, Wat is more important to me is the well-being of my children and I think children do not ask for material stuff, they are more than happy being close to the parents and having the parents spend quality and quantity time with them.