ahnetsan, if gynae tell me it's NORMAL, my trick is to answer "Yes, I believe it's normal also, but what can I do to make myself feel better, or to make it go away? Any suggestions?". Usually will get a more useful response from him, he won't tell me "just live with it". But my gynae still not that bad lah, even if it's "normal", he'll still put it in a reassuring way and not make u feel boh liao for asking, so at least I don't feel like I'm wasting my money haha!