missycandy, i agree!!!! some hubbies are just so insensitive, like mine, always say continue wif bf, but he doesnt know it is quite tough for a working mother like me to spare time for pumping during working hours.. and will say things like "is ur job more impt than our kid's health?" wah biang... like that win liao...
queenie, maybe ur hubby is referring to the stress level that both of you are facing la.. but i know being a SAHM is a tough job lor.. experienced that during the maternity leave.. my hubby's auntie got a bb who is 1 month older than my gal, and the whole world is comparing who is faster, who is fatter, and the worse is who started on porridge first.. MIL wanted to start on porridge but my gal only 5 months 2 weeks and cannot sit steadily yet, how to take porridge?
pepper, how come menses will come if you are still on TBF?? aiyoz.. mine hasnt come yet but i m tinking of stopping bf in december as i might want to try for #2 in jan/feb next year..
alfafa, gracie can stand already?? that's great!! kayla can flip but she cant stay long on her tummy, meaning she still dunno how to support herself using her arms, all the while she is using her tummy and always pose herself like "flying".
scrumpee, my gal snores too, i tink she inherited from me.. heehe... cos hubby is a lightsleeper la, and most of the times, i can see his back facing me on bed.. sad right? and btw, i just fed my gal with half an avocado today. personally speaking, i never like it but the nutrients from avocado is very good for bb, so i tried to taste it and realised it is tasteless and a bit creamy.. eee.. in the end i let bb took half of it, but it seems quite dry so next time probably i will mash it and add milk before offering to her.
about MILs : sometimes got to open one eye, close one eye la.. eg. my mil likes to feed kayla wif metal spoon though i bought those weaning plastic spoons from avent and pigeon. i was a bit mad at the start as all my spoons are lying in an isolated drawer, but after much tinking, i believe whatever she is doing is for the good of my gal, so i just let her use the one that she is comfortable with as long as no harm goes to my gal. as for me, i continue to feed with my plastic spoons. and of cos the most pitiful person is my maid, cos she got to remember who is using which spoon... hahaaha..