Simz, Priviledged, GT: Thanks for the encouragement!
Yest (Fri) was better, bb more cooperative and blocked nose seems to have improved.
but still busy till only now then got time to log in, cos cant z after feeding bb.
GT: i had the same experience of merlion, it got so bad that his nose is also filled with milk.
cry and cry until the whole face change color.
we got so worried, kept him in the burping position and pad him.
then went to kkh after that, doctor says nothing wrong, it is just normal.
wasted the money, but more assured that he is fine.
GT: I'm now coping with bb alone. Din manage to get extra help cos parents already had 2 kids to take care and in-laws are working.
when i return to work, bb will be sent to infant care.
most probably will send bb to infant care when he is 2 months, a bit waste $$$ but at least I have choice of keeping him at home or send him to infant care when i need more rest.
hubby a bit heartache to send bb to infant care so early, but a bit bo bian leh.
thinking of getting nanny, but din manage to find a good one yet.
GT: can PM me the nanny agent contact? thanks in advance.
I also have this bb crying in my ears effect. then realize i am imagining it.
guess we are just too stressed out.
I also dont think i can handle bb alone w/o hubby and drive.
So for the gathering day, will just ask hubby to drive me and bb there and then fetch us after when we are done.
GT: Yap, have been feeding bb with gripe water, think it is more of the blocked nose that he is feeling uncomfortable.
sheepish: why your mum not staying in the east, then i can get her to be bb's nanny too.
peachmomo, olivelym SY: i actually also planning to go holidays. just that no one to help to take care of bb yet.
maybe later when my parents are more free.
catmomo: i made my hubby to take me out whenever my in-laws came in the evenings.
even go for dinner, window shop a bit also helps to relieve some of my stress and handling of bb alone blues.
next tues, hubby volunteer to take care of bb for the evening so that i can go for a friend's birthday celebration.
looking forward to it!
whitegalz: let us know the effect of bioskin thingy after you have tried leh.
binder: i still havent start to bind yet, cos the last time i tried, v uncomfortable, probably due to c-sec.
dont know when then i will start.