cindy:
no worries, i oso not yet plan for Kasia's 1st bdae nia! hahaha...
Fabbie, Snow & Rachel:
thks for advice, juz need to vent my past 4 mths fustrations. u knw lar, upset oso cannot show anutie face cos scared she hurt BB. i will keep an active lookout for IFC or another nanny. if her chin-cai attitude continues, i will definitely switch. im oreadi a "lazy" and bo-chap mummy compared to many of u here, so i juz cannot let Kasia suffer at nanny's place. Ah... nw i realy understand the worries being a mummy.
im disappointed oso becos i honestly wan to treat my nanny well too. w/o her prompting, i add $ when Kasia turns 6mo, thou im still the one buying cereals and fruit juice etc. and when her DIL gives birth, i oso give gift and ang bao, all i ask is for her to up her std of hygiene and cleanliness. now it seems like im asking too much.
juz asking, for mummies who leave yr darlings at IFC or nanny, do u call daily at least once to check up if yr BB is ok or juz updates?