Jappooh,
My maid have 1 off day per mth which I dun mind, let her have some entertainment, but of coz will worry that she will come back and compare this and tat, But so far quite ok, she usually mix with her sister and good frn who are working here oso. I will leave it to the maid to take care of bb when she's here. I have been monitoring her since Dec'07. She haven't take care of NB b4, but I asked her, she's willing to learn so I will have to teach her during my maternity leave.
I find that if you 1 2 put ur child in CC, put him/her earlier b4 the 2nd 1 is born. Let them get used to the routine. My son now sleeps at abt 9pm+, wake up 7am+, sometimes he do 1 2 sleep more but I've still wake him up. He will take a afternoon nap in sch, the teachers will train them to follow the schedule. If not by the time the 2nd 1 born, they will think that got didi/meimei dun 1 him liao.