scarletGal,
i attend my closed cousin's funeral during #1, just put one bunch of keys inside pocket will do. Den #2, i also attend my ah gong funeral, same thing, put one bunch of keys inside pocket. when walking and pray, no need to knee down. by e way im teochew
although my mil say better dun attend but i hack care lor.. as previously my cousin n 1 quite close one. my parents ok with mi attend. just remember to put e keys in my pocket.